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B*tchy Friends
Hi, I'm 15/f
At school i sit with a group of friends.On the weekends and holidays some of my friends orgaise things to do together, like going to the beach or hang out at someones house or a party and i'm hardly ever invited. I always feel left out because my friends never call me up and invite out.
What can i do to feel more accepted by my friends? Or how can i get invites without seeming desperate?
Thank you in advance :)
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If they act like that they are not your friends. True Friends don't do leave you out of plans like that. I think you should sit down and talk to them about it and tell them how you feel and tell them that if they don't start inviting you to events it's not going to work out. I think you should go and meet new people. People that will accept you and wont leave you out of plans they are making. good luck!!
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wow why do they act like that ? do you hang out with them alot or just sometimes? and maybe you can make the plans this time put yourself in there dont wait for someone to invite you speak out say it out loud be like hey you guys want to go to the movies ? or something like that when you guys are just hanging out get close dont wait for them to make the plans because maybe one they just dont like you and they dont want you around for some reason and 2 most likly because you seem uninterested enough
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Next time you find out that they have done something without you, you could hint around.... say, "Oh, did I miss your call? Cause I would have come! That sounds like fun!" or "next time you'll have to call me and let me know because I would love to join you!"
If that doesn't work, you could try organizing the outings yourself and be the one to invite the others.
If that still doesn't work, maybe you could find some other people to hang out with on the weekends? Good luck!
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