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First time sex with the love of my life!!!
I'm a vergin, and i was wondering what my boyfriend can do on his part to penetrate me and make me relax while he is doing it. Everytime we get to the point where he is about to penetrate me, i tend to be afraid and whenever we try to do it, I either become dry once he tries to penetrate me so his penis cannot go in or even when I'm wet, I become very tensed and can't keep my legs wide open so he still can't penetrate me. what should I do?I'm very desperate!! we tried several times and still we can't make love:( please help!
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maybe its because you're not ready to have sex, but thats only one possibiltly lol :)
if its not in a very good location you could be nervious that someone might walk in.
i remember my boyfriend couldnt have sex with me the first time we tried because we had planned it. he didnt like the idea of having a time and a place because he felt like he had to have sex, like he didnt have a choice. if you're planning them maybe thats your problem.
or if your not planning maybe that could be why you're so nervious. because like i said before, you're worried someone might walk in.
your boyfriend could also try to give you a massage before you try again. this could make you relax a bit.
another thing you could try is to have fun! dont take it so seriously. laugh about things, talk to each other, that could also relax you a bit.
maybe, if you dont already, is have oral sex first. let him finger you, suck you, lick you. i know it sounds gross but if you havent tried it already maybe give it a go. and you can also give him oral back, give him head.
also try some lube if you want, if you dont want to buy some, some spit also does the job. spit wont harm you in anyway, thats if its your own :)
and the last possibility could be your boyfriend might not be the right person to have sex with first. if your worried he'll hurt you then dont do it.
well i hope this helps you out :) stay safe and enjoy yourself :)
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use some lube and a lubed condom.
and also the reason why he cant go in is because youre tensed up
so youre the problem why he cant go in.
just relax and dont get so tensed up.
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