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How to loosen up and not be so shy?
hi im 14f bf's 16 XD
Well i started dating my boyfriend after the christmas break.. Now we are back into school. He is so sweet.. to sweet XD the best boy friend ever..seriously he calls me his juliet. XD We both are in groups where ppl hate on us..we are so much a like. Well the first time i met him(My best friend got us together XD)..we planned on him waiting 4 him after school at the middle school..we planned on having a kiss nd i did..but i was shaking nd my lips quivered so he says..hah Well, im so shy..my legs were shaking nd everything. The next time i met him..he told me he wanted to kiss my neck .. nd i wasn't in the mood for it because i had a horrible day, i almost cried when he was holding me.Well, he was brushing my hair nd told me to calm down...i guess it made a scene because one of the 6th grade teachers told us it was inappropriate.;/ Well we can't see each other any other time? We are a really good couple. How can i stop being shy..really? He thinks its cute..but i feel so insecure even though he says im perfect..perfect for him. I have low self esteem..lol ;/ How can we NOT get in trouble? haha Thanks for helping..i rate fair XD
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Do you want an honest answer? You aren't ready for a relationship yet. You're not necessarily shy, you're just not ready. Thats ok. He'll just have to understand that.
It sounds like he may be more mature than you are. I don't mean that in bad way. You need to tell him not to rush you into kissing. It isn't something you plan, it just happens.
Your instincts are telling you you aren't ready. Listen to them! Don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing.
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