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i need help... badly!!
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 5:45 pm
if you find someone that you just can't stop thinking about and that you're CRAZY about, what do you do to help get him off your mind? especially if you know there's no chance of you getting to be with him? and how do you start acting normal again if you're really depressed and sad because of him? i just want to forget about him and stop being depressed and start acting happy and energetic again. please help!!
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need advice
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 5:29 pm
I was in a realtionship for 4 1/2 years and was engaged to him for 6 months, when all of a sudden he wanted to end things. There was some things that happened in my childhood that I never told him, but I told him last night was happended, even though we are not together anymore. I was sexually abused as a child but it has stopped for almost 15 years. I am now 24. I still want this guy in my life, but I need help first. He did not leave me because I told him what happened. I just felt like he should know. Me and him have shared a lot of stuff, and even he agreed that some of the reasons he left me were because of how I acted, because of how I was treated as a child. I was wondering if there is anyway you can help me out. Any help would mean the world to me. Thank you for your time
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Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 5:22 pm
So here's the facts thus far:
1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.
2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.
3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.
4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and tha...
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How Do I Get Over Him?
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 4:45 pm
I'm a freshman and I already had my first high school boy, "Tommy", he & I were perfect for each other, everyone thought we were gonna be high school sweethearts. We dated for almost 2 months, he had already told me he loved me and I truly loved him!
Later, he had heard some rumors about me that weren't true and he knew it, but instead, he listened to his friends. The next time we talked, he gave me a lame excuse and broke up with me. I was a mess, I cried myself to sleep for 2 weeks straight!
It's been about 2 months since we broke up, I felt like I was over him, but my close friend asked me if she could take "Tommy" to our winter formal. Now, I'm mad at myself for saying it was okay (she asked me if i...
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UGH
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 4:12 pm
I'm 16f, he's 18m.
I think I'm in love with him. He says he's in love with me. We never dated but we're like best friends. He likes me along with another girl. He could never go out with me because he liked her, and visa versa.
So I've just been feeling horrible because this is the first time I've ever been in love, and I can't do anything about it. I just want to cry when I see him because nothing serious will ever happen. I just want to hug him and never let him go.. geez I'm getting teary just wrtiting this.. He's been upset about this situation too.. he just can't make a choice and I don't blame him? I'm getting so fed up that I told him that he should just try and fix things up with the other girl.. but he told me...
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im confused
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 3:20 pm
I cant tell if im just falling hard or im in love...I really like this guy..hes all i think about..I go crazy on the days i dont see him and i do nothing all day cause im thinking about him. He makes me nervous when im around him and the little things that he says can either make my whole day make me really upset. You know if its a cute comment it makes my whole day and vs aerus. (sp) . I cant picture myself with anyone else but him and i dont like anyone but him , i have turned down guys cause i like him and it seems no one compares to him. Anything bad that about is just goes over my head and i dont notice it. So heres the part im confused about..am i in love or is it just a crush..plz HELP im realy confused!
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in love, but untrusted
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 2:56 pm
ok. i was going out w/ this guy for about 2 months. we realy liked each other, and everything, but then i realized that i still liked this other guy, and id nevr gotten over. so i dumped him, cuz i thought it wouldnt b fair to go out w/ him wen i liked another guy. well, i immediately regretted it, and i still like him, but he wont talk to me and he says he really hates me. i apologized a million times and tried to talk him into going back out w/ me. he said he still liked me, but he cant trust me, bcuz i dumped him for another guy, and he doesn't want his heart broken again. so wat should i do? i rly rly like him, and i wanna go back out w/ him, but he just dosnt trust me.
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14/F
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 2:47 pm
hey ok well here's the deal...my mom will let me go out with friends no problem. but whenever i m going w/ just a guy FRIEND she like makes sure a million times we are JUST FRIENDS. and we are. so no problem right?? but heres the Problem; she'll let me have boyfriends but she won't let me go out anywhere with them! whats the point of having a b/f if i can't go anywhere with them? how can i get her to lighten up and let me go out with a guy who is a little more than a friend????????? HELP!!! -and please dont say sneak around her i'd feel really guilty!-
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to forget...
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 2:34 pm
what are some ways to FORGET a guy? i love him so much but i need to get over him! its so hard cuz he likes my friend and she likes him back and they're rubbing it in my face. how can i forget him?
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guys kinda suck
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 2:00 pm
okay so i got dumped a few weeks ago and the guy says he likes me but hed rather have friends than a girl friend, but he still acts like he still like lovesss me. I want to get over him soo bad but idk how..any ideas?
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What is the problem?
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:59 pm
ususally i GIVE Advice on this site, but i guess im asking now - this question is for the guys out there, i dont want to hear " get over him " because im perfectly aware that i need to, and im working on it -
i met this guy, brad - we met through friends and i found out he liked me, so i started liking him. we were amazing together. i really fell for him. we were always together, he was so sweet. and so funny - then one day it just ended. he said he couldnt date me. i was pretty upset but i went on with my life i guess even tho i still liked him. after that we were just friends, but every once in a while we would be "together" again for like a week and then, after that wed just be friends again i do eve...
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should i or should i not
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:57 pm
ive been happily married with my husband for a little over a year now but ive always wanted to cheat on him but not with another guy another girl im 21 years old im very curious never went all the way before should i tell him or just do it behind his back p.s i dont want to share
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do i like her?
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:55 pm
15/m there is this girl that is like the person i can trust the most in the entire world. she's great to talk to and i never get bored when i'm around her. the thing is we kinda off-and-on liked each other last year. now i think we're both kinda over each other, or at least i thought so until last week. she gave me these gifts in school and it really made me happy. maybe it was just the christmas spirit or something. since then i've been thinking about her a lot everyday. i called her to ask her a question and we ended up talking for hours and i kinda felt like i didnt like her. so then why is she still on my mind? if i find out that she likes me, should we be friends or more?
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tell me how?
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:50 pm
okay is it wrong to be so outgoing? i mean when im with my group of friends boys and girls.ill be one of the boys..im always the one making jokes and talk with attitude.but sometime i feel i should slow down be more reserved and sweet.becouse even tough im friendly n outgoing my girlfriends seems to be getting all the boys.why? i need advice badly becouse im in love with one guy he doesnt know about it.so i dont want 2 mess things up this time. i dont want to look like a clown.pls help.
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Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 11:19 am
hey im 14 and well my mom doesnt really let me go out shes very picky and i was wondering if maybe anybody knows ways to go out with out making it obvious.
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ughh..
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 11:04 am
okay so i've liked this kid .. we'll call him joe for months now. and he's screwed around with my head and dragged me along .. but i still couldn't get over him. and recently i've been on a site called e-spinthebottle. and i met a guy .. we`ll call him tom. well tom is so nice we've talked on espin and on aim. and he called me last night .. hes like 10x better than any guy i know and i know he's a REAL guy no some perv. he has a myspace with friends and comments and all that stuff. but like i dont know what to do .. i finally am over joe only to like someone who lives like 4 states away from me .. this isn`t exactly how i pictured getting over joe .. by gettin stuck on another guy i cant have ..
help .. please ...
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I don't know what I am to him
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 7:22 am
I talk to a guy online who used to go to my school, then moved to another state, when he went to my school we werent really friends, and never spoke to eachother.
Then a friend gave me his email. So I added him and started talking to him, this was about a year ago. He had a girlfriend back then, and I, also, was with someone. We only spoke about once a week, and always ended up having an arguement over silly things.
Then about 3 months ago, we started talking normally. I fell inlove with him. He always called me things like beautiful, just flirting. Then he started liking some girl, and he stopped calling me nice things, I was heartbroken.
After that we didnt speak as often, but then one day he s...
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crush
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 4:50 am
what do I do if I like someone
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What are guys thinking when they...
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:49 am
I've recently encountered guys that just hardcore stare. I was by the stage at one show, and two guys i had met previously but were not completely friendly with (only met, don't talk to them) were standing on the opposite side of the stage. One of them kept looking at me, even when i looked back and caught him staring. He just kept right on holding eye contact, not smiling, but just watching.. Then later, his other friend was staring at me out of the corner of his eye. I looked right back because when people stare you can usually feel it, you know? Even after i looked back he kept on staring.
is it because they know more about me than i think they do? are they intimidated to talk to me? what is going on, what are guys thinkin...
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Must agree to disagree
Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 12:18 am
alright.. My boyfriend was saying goodbye over the internet and he said I love you so much and i said i love you more & i'll see you tomorrow & then he said "in that we must agree to disagree." what does that mean?
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