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UGH
I'm 16f, he's 18m.
I think I'm in love with him. He says he's in love with me. We never dated but we're like best friends. He likes me along with another girl. He could never go out with me because he liked her, and visa versa.
So I've just been feeling horrible because this is the first time I've ever been in love, and I can't do anything about it. I just want to cry when I see him because nothing serious will ever happen. I just want to hug him and never let him go.. geez I'm getting teary just wrtiting this.. He's been upset about this situation too.. he just can't make a choice and I don't blame him? I'm getting so fed up that I told him that he should just try and fix things up with the other girl.. but he told me that he just can't give up yet.
But I guess my question is, what do you think is the right way for me just to foget about him? I can't stay up one more night dwelling on this, and I don't want him to dwell on this anymore either.. and if it helps I really don't have any other options when it comes to guys..
If you read all of this, thanks..
-Miserable in Massachusetts
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Let go of it. You don't need to have other options; this one isn't good enough for you.
He is being deeply cruel and nasty to keep you tagging along, telling you he loves you but can never be with you. It doesn't matter how he *feels* about it all, what he is *doing* is purely selfish. He's addicted to his own drama and you shouldn't be letting him play with your heart like that.
You should be blaming him. Cut down your communication unless he starts behaving responsibly. If you stop talking to him and dragging up all this emotional bull again and again, you'll find it easier to move on.
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well i suggest go out with the gurls meet people have fun and youll soon realize hes not worth it because if he was mister right he would never give you a reason to cry ...(unless he told a really funny joke and your laughing really hard)
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I hardly even needed to read past the first paragraph to know that he's full of shit. Honey, if he likes another girl and can't go out with you because of that, he is NOT in love with you and probably doesn't even know what the hell love is. Stop talking to him and putting up with his bullshit lies and you'll start to get over him. If it takes a long time, don't beat yourself up over it. People leading other people on really screws people up, and you've been led on so it might take a good deal of time to pick yourself up again. Seek support in friends and family rather than him. Good luck.
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