Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:49 am
I've recently encountered guys that just hardcore stare. I was by the stage at one show, and two guys i had met previously but were not completely friendly with (only met, don't talk to them) were standing on the opposite side of the stage. One of them kept looking at me, even when i looked back and caught him staring. He just kept right on holding eye contact, not smiling, but just watching.. Then later, his other friend was staring at me out of the corner of his eye. I looked right back because when people stare you can usually feel it, you know? Even after i looked back he kept on staring.
is it because they know more about me than i think they do? are they intimidated to talk to me? what is going on, what are guys thinking when they just hardcore STARE at you for no reason.
Imperialistic answered Thursday December 29 2005, 4:31 am: They're checking you out.
I've had guys like those stare at me. They do it unflinchingly and it might even feel threatning.
As to why they don't talk to you, it could be intimidation. More likely, they find you intriguing and they don't know what to do about it. I don't have anymore information about what you look like, whether you're friends with them or not and where this happened, so I can't surmise an exact reason. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
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