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Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 10:56 pm
Okay im 17/f and my boyfriend 18. Well me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, i please him and he pleases me but i was wondering what can i do different? Like any new positions or moves or anything> I just wanna try something new and see how we like it. We've done alot of different ones but not all :].
Thanks in Advance!
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pain vs pleasure
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 6:37 pm
ive had sex about 15 times and it still hurts when he puts it in and kindof feels good after.
so my question is once it stops hurting will it feel more pleasurable? or will it just feel kindof good still?
and does it not feel that great because my vagina is sore from being stretched after he puts it in or does that have no affect
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first time
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 5:18 pm
how bad does it hurt when a girl loses her virginity? is it REALLY painful?
and i also heard that sometimes the girl bleeds, but then some of my friends told me that they didn't...so when do you bleed?
and does it ever hurt the second time?
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I don't want to take medication anymore, any tips?
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 5:00 pm
(17/f) Okay so since I was 12 I have been diagnosed with depression. Throughout the years I have been put on medications but I always get the strangest side affects, so I really don't like taking them. I used to be suicidal like 2 years ago but not anymore. Though I still do suffer from depression on a daily basis. I'm getting sick of always feeling like this though and I really don't want to resort to taking medication again. Any tips on what I can do so I don't have to feel like this day to day? Anything is greatly appreciated :)
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i had sex and then took the day after pill.
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 2:34 pm
So I ended my last period on the 4th.
Had sex on the 9th. And then took the day after pill the next day.
& now I am on my period again, whats going on?
Also, is the day after pill considered abortion?
Thnx.
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Sex is confusing!
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 12:03 pm
Does the guy ususally orgasm first or the girl? and if one person orgasms first does the other one keep going until they orgasm? just a tad confused
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uhh yeah
Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 6:55 am
is it normal too discharge alot when your getttin fingred? is that considered like being wet?
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dr. ruth
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 7:52 pm
well i was flippin through the channels and dr. ruth was on and she was talking abotu hand jobs. when you do that to someone does the semen like shoot out straight up or come out slowly? i was just wondering cause i had to leave to go somewhere before i finished watching the show.
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when he's finished after sex..?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 5:10 pm
so that my boyfriend doesnt "go" in me, he tells me when he is about to orgasm and he pulls out... but i feel stupid not doing anything after that point so my question is should i touch him or give him head after he says that? guys answer...
thank youuuuu
f/20 fyi
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help
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 12:56 pm
Right now I'm really scared... So I hooked up with my friend on Friday, April 10th... I went down on him, and he didn't finish before I stopped.. I probably got a little pre-cum in my mouth if anything.
The next day or so.. I had a cold sore. It's April 14th now.. and its starting to heal... well almost all the way gone, but I also have soars on the top of my lips that I just noticed today.
Just two tiny little bumps though, and I have REALLY clear skin.. I never break out, I don't think it could have been anything I've eaten, because anything I've eaten has been things I've always eaten.
Could it be herpes? I mean, he's only been with one partner.. I'm not sure how many people s...
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too experienced to have sex with ?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 2:22 am
hiiii my name is . . . welllll it shouldn't matter but i'm 15 years old . female . my boyfriend is 17 and well I want to do "it" with him but i'm very shy and I have lots of debates with myself. like I hate the way vaginas look lol . I don't know what to do if it hurts a lot . I won't be able to look him into his face . that's just how shy I am ! ! ! . & like I feel very insecure about the "odor" or "scent" of my vagina . because I never smelled anyone else's so like I don't know if it's wrong . I already went to the gynechologist (i probably spelled that hecka wrong) . she gave me medicine for bv bacterial somethin . & like I don't want to open my legs to him and get embarrassed :(
so please s...
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Possible Pregnancy, Please Help!!
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 11:54 pm
So yesterday (Sunday) my boyfriend and I were fooling around. Things got very heated, but there was no actual penetration. Both of us had our underwear off, however, but his penis only made contact with my vagina for a few seconds, when he was massaging my clit with it (not the actual hole). There was no precum at the moment, I had wiped it dry beforehand. I'm wondering if there could have possibly been any remanents on the head of his penis, and if there is any possible way they could have made their way into my actual vagina and gotten me pregnant. Like I said, there was no wetness, and he did not come. I'm just terrified. Please help!!
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safe?
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 11:15 pm
So i know the only safe sex is no sex. but me and my boyfriend have been dating and it's pretty serious. we both really want to do it, but i'm so paranoid about getting pregnant! even with a condom! any advice? I'm 15, i'm not ready to be a mom haha.
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help boyfriend last longer.
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 11:03 pm
okay me and my boyfriend had sex twice, were both sixteen. everytime i give him head or something he lasts like a minute before he tells me he is about to cum then we wait a second or two till it goes away and make out or something and when we have sex its like 6 thrusts then he is about to cum or he does cum. how can i help him last longer? i want to get off when we have sex. please i need advice!
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Ive been taking birth control for 3 days...
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 8:04 am
So ive been taking birthcontrol since thursaday..
saturday i didnt take it..
this morning me and my husband had sex. and the condom broke.. we're not sure if his sperm went inside..
can i still get pregnant even though ive been on birth control for a couple of days? :[
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dirty talk
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 11:13 pm
i know everyone likes being talked to dirty.
i love sex, im a sex feen. but i cant express (verbally) how i want things. i usually end up getting on top and doing what i want instead of telling my man how to make it just right. sometimes im imbaressed, and i really want to be able to be sexy and have fun but i need help.
basicially, i need someone to help guide me on what to say, when to say it, and what is sexy to a man.
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used to one thing, need to do something else
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 9:34 pm
alright, let me give you a little background. in past sexual experience im used to bein dominated 99.9% of the time because of the guys ive been with, plus the fact that i used to do a lot of drugs with the guys i was with. im also used to black guys.
now im not datin a black guy, and i had a conversation with my boyfriend and he said he wanted it to be an equal thing. the thing is, though, ive been sober for a while now and im not used to the kind of guy im with. so now i kind of have to learn sex all over again.
so i have a few questions. one, when a guy thrusts in me do i thrust with him at the same time? and when im on top should i just bounce on him if you know what i mean? or 'booty pop' (which i can do w...
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I dont know if i am pregnant
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 8:24 pm
okay. i was protected when i had sex about a month ago. but he messed up. it was only his twice having sex and he came but didnt tell me and he kept going and the condom fell off on me
but i picked it up and the semen was still inside.
i know there is a possibility of it spilling or him dripping on me from residue.
i wiped n i saw no semen
i missed my period for march
i then got a bladder infection the following day after having sex with him
i went a week later hurting bad from the infection he turns out i did have a bladder infection. he did a prengnacy test on me and he said i was fine. but it was only like a week and a half since i had that sex. after i got rid of my bladder infection i h...
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birth control.
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 4:59 pm
okays sooo, ive been on birth control for like two years now, and i have never known the answer to this question, ive tried to ask my ginocologest but she didnt really answer me.
butt.. when your on birth control, can the guy like cum in you and you wont get pregnant. Like im not stupid me and my boyfriend still use condoms every single time and were still going to, but im just kinda curious casue if not then what does birth control do?
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very inexperienced
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 4:25 pm
So i really like this guy and he likes me. He has done a lot more than i have and ive done basically nothing. I'm supposed to hang out with him sometime at his house and im very nervous. I have not kissed a guy since i was in the 6th grade and im in the 10th right now. Ive had bf's but it was always so weird and awkward until now. This is the first time in a very long time where i like someone a lot. And im very nervous with everything and i dont know what to do. Im very afraid that im going to suck at everything because im so inexperienced. So what do i do to get better or how do i handle the situatuion. I'm not planning on having sex with him but other things might come up if not when im there then some other time so i just need help on how to handle it and what to do.
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