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first time
how bad does it hurt when a girl loses her virginity? is it REALLY painful?
and i also heard that sometimes the girl bleeds, but then some of my friends told me that they didn't...so when do you bleed?
and does it ever hurt the second time?
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honestly, i didn't bleed on my first time. the thing is that, girls that bleed the first time is a small percentage. if you don't, it's normal. it wouldn't hurt the first or second time if you're lubricant or if the guy fingers you for a while, so it wouldn't hurt as much. mine, didn't hurt the first or second time. (: hope that helped.
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It really depends on the girl. It's not really painful if the girl is relaxed and lubricated. If she is tensed up and dry, then it will be very painful.
A girl will bleed if her hymen has not been ripped. If it has, then she probably won't. It can hurt the second time, it just once again depends on how relaxed and lubricated she is.
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I was painfree for the first 5 seconds and then it was a kind of burning pain but it wasn't bad enough to stop. I also never bled. And the second time didn't hurt at all. Also, if I haven't had sex for a week or more (while the period is going on) and then I finally do it, it hurt again, but not that bad and it didn't last long.
But everyone is different. A close friend of mine said it hurt a lot (although not bad enough to stop) and she bled.
I deffinately believe the key is to be completely relaxed because even now about a month after I lost my virginity if I'm worked up about something and not relaxed it'll hurt a little.
Oh and you asked 'when do you bleed'..i'm assuming you're asking why some bleed and some don't. If you use tampons or do sports you've most likely broken your hymen so you probably won't bleed.
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I never bled after my first or second time. My first time was pretty painful, i made my boyfriend stop. The second time , it didnt hurt until half way through when the guy went really deep. Also, try to have the guy finger you so something first , it makes it a lot easier.
Hope I helped ,
Stephanie :)
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For me sex wasnt or hasnt ever been painful.
Umm idk if ive ever bled.
but usually you bleed when you pop your cherry.
and You cant feel that happen. So yeah :)
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Some girls bleed when they lose their virginity, others don't. It's possible to bleed the second time also.
From my experience, I bled both the first and second times, but it wasn't painful.
Hope I helped!
-Nicole
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