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help boyfriend last longer.
okay me and my boyfriend had sex twice, were both sixteen. everytime i give him head or something he lasts like a minute before he tells me he is about to cum then we wait a second or two till it goes away and make out or something and when we have sex its like 6 thrusts then he is about to cum or he does cum. how can i help him last longer? i want to get off when we have sex. please i need advice!
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I had this problem when I was 16 with the boy I was dating, so what I got him to do was when ever he thought or was close to just stop & just kiss, nothing heavy just a slit pause in the action. It might take a while for him to build up be4 he can actually last longer....also don't give him head be4 yall do it see if that helps too. & then he can try masturbating be4 he comes over so he already has one relief. but if you really wanna get urs, then get on top do the work to get urs & then let him go...
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I'm going to assume that your boyfriend actually cares if you get off. You two are going to have to do other things to help you get to your tipping point before there is any penetration. He's young and this is somewhat normal. The good news is that you excite the hell out of him. You don't say if you are using condoms or not. They can desensitize him a bit and help him last longer. The one other poster talked about your boyfriend masturbating like 2 hours prior to the sex. I definitely wouldn't have him do it THAT much earlier. Ask your boyfriend how long it takes it to recharge his batteries. Honestly, i'd say the best way to go about things is to for him to masturbate (with or without your help) then start doing things like making out and whatever so you can heat up. by the time you get pretty warmed up, he should be getting close to when he can go again. now that youu're worked up then go for the intercourse. you two would have to work with the timing to get it right.
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First of all, you must know that only a very small percentage of women can reach an orgasm through sexual intercourse. Don't get your hopes up too high. If it happens, great for you. You're in a lucky minority.
If you don't mind him getting you off with oral and his fingers, you can probably work on that. Concentrating on that, foreplay, and getting you off first might be good, then have him do his thing to get himeslf off and you'll both be pleased.
Another tip for him to last longer, have him masturbate and get off by himself earlier in the day (maybe a few hours before you two get together). He will most likely take a little longer to get off when he's with you.
All those tips above should surely help you in the sack. Best of luck and play it safe!
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