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this kid wont quit!
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 6:41 pm
okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude?
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boy
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 2:52 pm
ok well theres this boy i like alot and well he likes this other girl but last year he told me i am hot so than i started to like him but now he told the other girl he likes her and she doesnt like him but about every 2 month he says it hoping it will change but she not going to change her mind every time he says i like you to her i get so mad/sad cause in those 2 month i try to get him to like me my question is should i get over him or keep trying and if its keep trying what should i do.
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okay..
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 2:30 pm
okay, i dont understand why i feel like this, but it happens in my relationship sometimes. well like sometimes ill feel bad for something i did (or didnt do) even though i probably shouldnt.. so i apologize for it.. then after i say im sorry.. i feel bad again and feel stupid like why did i even apologize for that? and i also feel like apologizing for stuff even when i dont even know if it needs a "im sorry" that its gonna push my boyfriend away.. or cause problems for spilling my heart out or saying sorry. so then sometimes ill tell him "well im sorry for apologizing, i thought i needed to" I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY IM LIKE THIS!! i hope it makes sense, it was hard to explain. and i know that if i said sorry at the time.. t...
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confused
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 11:54 pm
Well ive had a b/f for 11 months now and i do love him or else i wouldnt be so confused....Theres no spark anymore because hes so up my butt lol...He doesnt leave his dark room to hang out with anyone else because he said he might miss my call and he hates everyone because he said he doesnt need friend he only needs me and im only 17 so i dont want a relationship like that. and there is this guy and when ever he flirts with me or even talks to me i get excited.....and smile but i know if i break up with my boyfriend he'll fall hard and cry n stop going to school and do stupid things and i wouldnt be able to handle that! what should i do?
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money
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 11:44 pm
how can you ask your boyfriend for money without him thinking you are a golddigger?
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im way confizzled
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 11:14 pm
ok i like these 2 guys. we all hang out together at school. one is a sophomre and one is a senior. i like the senior more than the sophmore. me and the senior flirt constantly. me and the sephmore flirt a lot too just not as much. well i like the senior more, but the senior doesnt want a gf right now. its thats all kool. well the sophmore relizes that i like the senior more and he doesnt want to ask me out bcuz of that, i want to go out wiht him but this is the last semester i will ever see the senior again, and it would just suck if i have a bf, but i like the sophmore. and im just so confused about all of this. i dont no what to do, all my friends so go out with the sophmore. but i really like the senior and it just wont be the same betwe...
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need to lower sex drive
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 10:31 pm
my husband takes seroqueal at night to help sleep & 4 bipolar. he used to want sex alot but for last 1 1/2 yrs. only 1 or 2x a mo. i never used to want it but now i always want it. i need to know what i can take that will reduce my sex drive? we are both 38 yrs. i don't know if theres something otc i can take or if i need to ask the dr. 4 somethin spasific or even if there's a food that i can use. please help me. i don't know what else to do. it's definately not a lack of luv on his part he blames the meds. and all other aspects r fine thanx...
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Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 7:50 pm
ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks!
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Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 7:20 pm
ok i my friend and my best friend use to go out with him and they went out like 4 times and it never worked out so i like him and my friend asked him when i was on the phone but he didnt know i was if he liked anyone? he said he did and the girl he described was just like me but when i talked to him and asked he likes anyone he said he doesnt so my friend got the 3 of us on the phone at the same time and she told him that he needs to ask me out i was acting like i didnt like him and he just did a sorta laugh that was like maybe idk it wasnt amean laugh but it was a kinda idk laugh wow i sound stupid any way what should i do?
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Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 7:18 pm
OKay well i like this guy and the only thing is that ive gone out with him 3 times and i broke up with him last well the only reason i did is because im scared to get close to anyone i guess like my dad left when i was 12 and one of my best friends got all mad at me for no reason and stoped talking to me and my sisters about to have a baby so my moms all strest and is yelling at me and my best friend cammi is going threw alot right now and i normally help her and i cant even give good advice now and normally im realli good at helping people but now i cant get my mind off this guy i like and my advice has been realli sucky. im not sure what to do so can someone please help me..
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does this mean my friend may have feelings for me?
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 6:22 pm
One of my close male friends and I email each other. We are just friends, but he sent me an email that made me think that he may like me more. Well I told him in an email that I got 8 inches cut off my hair, and that is was really short now.
He sent me an email back and said " I can hardly WAIT to see your new look, and now you can show off you sexy neck".
Do you think this means he likes me more than a friends?
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my Guy =(
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 5:57 pm
Hi guys,
The reason that I named the subject "my guy =(" is because the name of the man whom I love is Guy. I went out with him shortly before Christmas break and broke up with him the same day because my friends told me repeatedly that he was gay. He is now going out with a girl named Angela, and I'm realizing that everything my friends said was untrue, and that I made a huge mistake. I am mourning my loss right now, and he really loved me, and I don't know if I'm ever going to get him back. Could someone please help me?
-just call me BLUE
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Female-15....almost 16 w/ boyfriend-15
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 3:54 pm
Ok, so I have been going out with this guy for almost a month, but it feels like it has been longer becasue of certian things. I mean we have been like best friends since 6th grade and we madeout before going out, so it's not like we started out as slow as some people might. He's still really good friends with his ex, I mean I'm friends with her too and I'm also good friends with my ex, but I get jealous of his relationship with her, and I'm not usually a jealous person. I don't know how to say anything to him, or to her, because it's a werid subject for me, and to top things off the only person that I can really talk to about with, or have really talk to about it at all with, is my ex. How do I say something without sounding like a girlfri...
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name calling
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 3:52 pm
okay im 13/f and for a while now i've really really liked this boy, Jimmy, and he did like me but since he found out i liked him so much different things amd problems have been happening. I've got rid of all of them but now there's a new one. My friend ask his friend, mitch why jimmy wouldn't go out with me. All he said was that he thinks he won't go out with me cause all i'll do is f*** him an then leave him! But that's totally not true! Since last year i've been known as a sl*t and I hate it! It's not true! But now so many boys are believeing the rumers that go around about me. I want to tell Jimmy that i wouldn't do that and i really like him but how would i go about doing that?
also if it helps he may not still like me but he plays hard to get.
Thank you!
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6 months of liking him for nothing
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 3:51 pm
i have liked my friend since the summer, and i didnt tell anybody. recently i was about to tell him when he started getting with my friend. they got in a big fight because she got with somebody else and he called her a whore and they hated eachother. then i told people that i liked him. now all of a sudden they want to get with eachother again and it makes me want to jump off a cliff and die. what should i do?
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extra marital relationship
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 5:28 am
over a period of time about 6 months i have become infatuatated with my colleugues wife. whenever i go to her house to see my collegue i keep staring at her. some times i feel she is also doing the same some times.i have definiteky seen her doing the same. I am 45yrs old happily married.she is about 40.I have a hunch that she wants me to make a move but i am not sure.i want to to take minimum of risk as the consequences are too much to bear.on other hand i feel a fling for a short time is not bad as we only live once.please help me
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should I get tested?
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 11:46 pm
I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something?
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religion
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 11:45 pm
My boyfriend is 24 and I'm 22 and we've been dating for at least 2 years. We love eachother dearly and are serious about one another. The only issue he and I occasionally discuss is religion. We do have a lot of the same morals however he's Christian and I was born into a sect of Hinduism, which I do believe in. Although we do respect and appreciate eachothers beliefs, I kinda get the feeling he wants me to convert. I really don't want to label myself something I'm not comepletely. Is it possible to have a healthy 'interfatih' relationship that works in the long run?!
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ahhh!
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 11:15 pm
I am really bad at seperating boyfriends from friends. Is the only difference between having a boyfriend and having guy friends is that you can kiss and hold hands with your boyfriend? I guess I have a problem..cause I treat my boyfriend the same way as my guy friends. Does anybody have an ideas how I can let him know that I really do like him as my boyfriend? Cause I am starting to convince myself that we should just be friends. Thanks.
14/f
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Ok So Is He Interested?
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 10:14 pm
K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at ...
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