ok i like these 2 guys. we all hang out together at school. one is a sophomre and one is a senior. i like the senior more than the sophmore. me and the senior flirt constantly. me and the sephmore flirt a lot too just not as much. well i like the senior more, but the senior doesnt want a gf right now. its thats all kool. well the sophmore relizes that i like the senior more and he doesnt want to ask me out bcuz of that, i want to go out wiht him but this is the last semester i will ever see the senior again, and it would just suck if i have a bf, but i like the sophmore. and im just so confused about all of this. i dont no what to do, all my friends so go out with the sophmore. but i really like the senior and it just wont be the same between me and him if i get a bf and that will really suck so much, i just dont no what to do...???help!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SaturnMoonie answered Wednesday January 11 2006, 6:47 am: Well, you obviously like this senior more, and your sophomore friend knows it. Why are you even thinking about putting him through that? Someone likes you, and he knows you like someone else more, and that at any moment if the senior decided he wanted a girlfriend, you'd drop the sophomore and go for the senior. How do you think that makes him feel. If you date the sophomore it's only going to be really hard for him. I'm sorry to say (and you'll probably give me low ratings, and I'm willing to deal with it, because I'm not here to get good ratings, I'm here to give people perspective) I think you're thinking about yourself, and maybe you should think a little bit more about these two guys, and whether or not your hurting them. Put yourself in the sophomore shoes, how would you feel? [ SaturnMoonie's advice column | Ask SaturnMoonie A Question ]
KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Wednesday January 11 2006, 2:17 am: Okay so now i know why no body answered this question..
Anywayyssss..I say forget about the senior & go out with the sophomore. The senior is going to graduate & there is no way for a sophmore to keep a college guy in a relationship. Since it's his first year in college when his senior year is over, he's going to be really busy with partying and doing all this other crap. The sophomore OBVIOUSLY doesn't want to get with you because of the senior. Sophomore guy sounds more right for you..
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