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this kid wont quit!
okay so theres this kid who really likes me and has asked me out so many times and each time i have politely said no, but lately he wont quit and keeps on asking me and asking me sometimes more than once a day! how do i tell him to stop asking me without being completely rude?
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PUNCH HIM! he'll get the point...jk jk! haha. No but really, just keep saying no, and tell you're always gonna say no and that you don't think of him that way. eventually, he will get it. But hey, you can always use you're fist, he will never see that coming :)
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sometimes you have to be a little rude. he needs to get the hint that you don't want to be bothered if it goes too far you might be looking at harrassment issues. talk to a guidence counselor and see what they think
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Okay.. Happens to me all the time, Theirs really nothing you can do maybe give the kid a chance even if he's like completely ugly. Then if you don't find like anything good in him brake up with him. It get's him away and looking for another girl.
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If you`ve had to repeat yourself more than a couple times, and he`s still not getting a clue .. you`re going to have to be rude. Don`t be extremly rude though because you don`t want to hurt him, just be firm enough so he`ll take a hint. If you don`t assert yourself he`s going to keep on asking .. and that could get really annoying ! lol.
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Just be real nice about it say look your a sweet guy and cute but your just not what I am looking for right now but I am looking for a good friend.
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Well this is simple, just tell him you do not like him and you would appreciate it if he would stop. d sya any of that its not you its me crap. But if you have to just flat out tell him I dont like you so leave me alone please and if he keeps its up hes probably a stalker so um thats when you should probbaly you know tell soemone. LOL
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Normally I would say to let him down gently, but when you have someone who just doesn't or won't understand that you're not interested, it's best to be FIRM.
I had a guy who was obsessed with me and followed me around like a puppy dog. He constantly asked me out and I was always really nice about it. Well one day he left a message on my voice mail and said "hey babe, call me at (his number). I was furious!! So I did something sort of mean, I got one of my friends to confront him and tell him to never phone me again and that I was NOT interested. He was really mad at me and hurt but guess what? He stopped asking me out and never bothered me again. His dirty looks were upsetting at first but at least he wasnt driving me insane any more.
So my advice is, if you're too nice to be mean to him, get a friend to confront him. It worked for me!
Good luck, let me know what happens.
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haha yeah i have one of those.. i just say.. iw ould just rather be friends cause i dont want a boyfriend right now..
say when your ready to go out with him you'll tell him or something..
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just explain to him nicely that you arent interested in him and you dont want to go out with him and you just want to be friends. or if you have to lie to the kid. tell him you have a boyfriend. hope i helped.
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Wow. Someone must be really desperate. Next time he asks, starting listing off why you wont go out with him. If that may seem rude, you can just tell him you dont think it'd work out between you two, or you like someone else, or you dont think you're the right one for him. If he doesn't accept the fact that you wont go out with him, quit being polite and start acting rude. But I'd keep that as a last resort.
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Well you can say " I'm not trying to be mean to you but i don't really like you as a boyfriend and say can you please try not to ask me out anymore but maybe we can be friends "
I hope that helped !
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