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my Guy =(
Hi guys,
The reason that I named the subject "my guy =(" is because the name of the man whom I love is Guy. I went out with him shortly before Christmas break and broke up with him the same day because my friends told me repeatedly that he was gay. He is now going out with a girl named Angela, and I'm realizing that everything my friends said was untrue, and that I made a huge mistake. I am mourning my loss right now, and he really loved me, and I don't know if I'm ever going to get him back. Could someone please help me?
-just call me BLUE
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You have two options: tell Guy how you feel, or don't. If you do, you risk heartache if he likes he new girlfriend - or you might get lucky and end up with him.
If you don't tell him, then you're in an uncomfortable and sad place - but actually you've learned a lesson that takes many people years to understand.
It is simply this: don't allow other people to tell you who to date. You are the only accurate expert on how you feel and what you want from a relationship.
Best of luck.
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OK sooo, you need to tell guy how you feel!!!!!! he probably still likes you a lot and he probably doesn't care about Angela. You should call him, AIM him or even write him a letter. If he is good enoguh for you, then he will take you back. If he doesn't, well then he sucks so find a better hotter guy and make him jealous! lol good luck
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If he was gay, why would he go out with you to begin with? I advise that next time, you don't listen to your friends about guys. Tell him that you were wrong and you miss him. Tell him how much he means to you. Hopefully he will give you another chance!
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if you miss him that much you should tell him. if he loved you back as much as you said he did he will accept that you made a mistake. you should deffinately tell him and tell him you still love and miss him and your reasons for breaking up with him. if he doesnt take you back he will respect that you told him the truth.
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I think you should let him know how you feel. Imagine yourself in his position. Would you let someone back into your life after being dumped by them all because of some false statements that they heard from their friends? I'm pretty sure the answer is no, if not then you are a really forgiving person.
Give him some time, but don't expect for him to come back to you immediately after your talk. It will probably take some time.
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I don't think it would be a bad thing for you to let him know why you broke up with him.
This is assuming you didn't tell him at the time.
Weather you do it now or wait until he no longer has a girlfriend is up to you.
If he really had feelings for you it may make a difference down the road. Not to mention that he really deserves an honest explanation about why you broke up with him. :)
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