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name calling
okay im 13/f and for a while now i've really really liked this boy, Jimmy, and he did like me but since he found out i liked him so much different things amd problems have been happening. I've got rid of all of them but now there's a new one. My friend ask his friend, mitch why jimmy wouldn't go out with me. All he said was that he thinks he won't go out with me cause all i'll do is f*** him an then leave him! But that's totally not true! Since last year i've been known as a sl*t and I hate it! It's not true! But now so many boys are believeing the rumers that go around about me. I want to tell Jimmy that i wouldn't do that and i really like him but how would i go about doing that?
also if it helps he may not still like me but he plays hard to get.
Thank you!
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Use some common sense!!!
If he is willing to listen to rumors then he's not worth your time.
Get over him.
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If he is willing to believe rumors about you then i don't think that he is worth it.
But if you still want to talk to him then i think that you should tell him that they are JUST rumors and that none of them are true. Explain the situation to him. Let him know that you care about him and would never do that to him.
I hope he comes to his senses and choose to ignore the rumors.
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You might not want to be after someone who is so apt to believe nasty rumors about you, if that is the real reason he is afraid of dating you.
The only way to really go about it if you really want him to know what you think is to tell him yourself. Tell him he shouldn't believe everything he hears and that you're not anything close to being a slut. (well, hopefully, since you're 13). If you can think of any nasty rumors that went around about him, you can bring them up and say that it never stopped you from respecting him before and he should do the same for you. If he won't budge and still believes the rumor then the trust needed to begin a relationship will not be there, so it won't be worth trying after that...
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