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Fighting over the boyfriend.
Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 10:20 am
Okay, so I'm currently dating this guy for about 2 months now. He has a problem with drugs and I realize he's trying to stop. He also has a girl who lives in CT (we live in DE) and he had dated him over the internet for awhile. She stopped talking to him for months and now all the sudden she's trying to get back with him. He recently broke up with me because "he had to get his life straight" (which I know was true because i can tell when he's lying) but he gives into easily and the day after he broke up with me this girl called him back and they ended up going back out. Four day's later this guy asks me back out saying he knows he's made a mistake and that I'm the only girl who has cared about him like I do and I'm the one he...
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It's not true love...but is it just an infatuation or once i
Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 9:38 am
So I'm 14/f and one of my friend's friend's cousin added me on msn about 3 months now. I don't talk to him alot and wen I do I find myself in this state: I start to flir with him and it gets to the point where he just keeps telling me how hott I am and stuff and then we don't talk for 5-7 days and between that time I really get out of it. Then wen I talk to him again the same thing happens. BTW...This boy is no prince charming (he's relly not hot or cute) and he's 15. So last night I was flirting with him like major! I mean we were talking bout tongue wrestling and he coming to my house. It's really not love cause it feels more like lust. I really enjoy talking to him and maybe flirting with him isn't the worst idea I ever had...but I reall...
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How to start?
Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 9:05 am
What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start.
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bfs, crushes, etc
Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 1:02 am
'k, sorry if this gets long winded. i'll try to keep it to the point.
18f, had my bf for about a year, & its pretty serious & we care alot about ea. other. sounds good, right? 'k, but theres this guy friend (call him Greg for now) that i used to have a crush on, and i was about to get up nerves to ask him out, but then my current bf asked me. It's not as if theres anything wrong, and i love my bf i guess, but lately i'm thinking alot about Greg, and what it would have been like to go out with him. i had that crush for a long, long time, and now school is practically almost over and i'll never find out.
I don't think it would really be possible to dump my bf for him anyways, but now Greg has a gf of his, for ...
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TRUE TROUBLE...!
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 10:25 pm
where and how do i make my own xanga backgrounds? and how do i put them in! everytime i try the picture only goes in the center and its little and ugly! everyone always has these cute backgrounds and i need to make one and know how to put it on my xanga!
i totally rate 5's!
anything will help this troubleness problem
<3 KaYkAY
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i need advice
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 9:24 pm
my name is john.i love a girl but i dont know is she likes me or not i cant ask her this question face to face.give me advice or trick about how can i find is she intrested in me?
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dumping a guy
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 8:59 pm
how do you dump a guy without hurting his feelings?
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ex is on my mind
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 8:23 pm
when i say that my ex has been on my mind a lot lately. i dont mean, when im sexually with my bf or anything. but sometimes when im alone or wiht my friends i think about him. my family moved next door to him a few days ago. we broke up about 5 months ago. i was really hurt. i know i loved him and still do. but i love my bf now. my new bf was my first. and he is so sweet. he is perfect. but how can i stop thinking about my ex. i dont feel like im being loyal to my bf. plez help
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Mother in law? Riiight....
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 8:08 pm
Why do teenage girls with boyfriends feel to need to refer to their boyfriends' mothers as "mother-in-law"? ...Is that just the new "thing to do" now? Last time I checked, someone isn't your mother-in-law unless you were married to her son or daughter, not merely dating them in high school. To me it sounds really funny, "15/f like omg my mother-in-law blah blah blah"...ummm... no. So can someone explain this to me? It's really hard to take questions like that seriously. haha
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families hate eachother..
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 7:32 pm
okay well you see.. me and this kid // we'll call him louis =] okay well me and louis went out in the summer and i liked him just not as much as you usually should like someone when your going out with them.. but everything was fine untill me and his cousin got into a fight and to make a long story short i called my brother to pick me up .. i told him the story.. he flipped out on "louis's" sister and now we arent allowed to hang out and in any means go out probably ever again.. but me and him really like eachother and i actually like him a lot this time but the only thing that is holding us back from going out is the family situation. i know its not the best thing to do and i dont want a leture on not lying but we were just think...
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Weird Situation
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 7:15 pm
My boyfriend and I can rarely hang out because my parents are so strict. I almost never see him outside of school. But he loves me alot and will do practically anything for me. But lately he has been hanging out with this girl, we'll call her Liz. And Liz obviously likes him. Liz has been using me to get closer to him but he swears that he doesn't like her. He always also talks crap about Liz behind her back. but they continue to hang out. But he doesn't want to break up with me.
Since me and him dont hang out alot, is he maybe trying to create a substitute of me that he can hang out with? What do you think?
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Mixed Feelings About My Boyfriend
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 7:12 pm
So I have this great boyfriend. He is really cute and really nice and every girl is just dying to meet him. But the only bad thing is that he acts so clingy sometimes. I went on vacation and he called my cell phone and left 12 messages saying "Hey babe...I miss you..Are you okay...call me..please..i love you more than my own life." And thats typical of him. He says that kind of stuff alot on the phone and computer.
But then at school he acts all jumpy and weird around me and sometimes I will walk right by him and say Hi and he will totally not hear me at all.
And if this might have anything to do with it, he wants to hang out with this girl who he always says he hates. And he invites me to hang out a...
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anyone answer this especially boys!
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 6:53 pm
okay there is this guy i like and a month ago he came to my party he was all over me at my party and i have only talked to him a couple times since my party and when i do talk to him its not alot i really like him and i want us to be more than just friends but i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to be gettin on his nerves because the day after my party my friend called him without me knowing and asked him out for me and he said he would think about it sometimes i think he likes me but he doesnt really show it and i dont know how to talk to him because hes the "gangster" type and i dont want him to think im stupid .. ughh what should i do?
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I slept with a guy and now hes being a dick.
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 5:48 pm
Im a girl, and im 16 years old. okay, a few months ago, i did stuff with this guy called Bryan. We did stuff several times at different parties. Hed be nice to me on the night, but after that, like at school and stuff, hed just kinda ignore me. but it wasnt so bad, hed speak on msn. sometimes i wondered if he was using me, so i tried talking to him about it, and he told me it was fine and he wasnt using me. But i feel used. WE havent done anything in a while as hes starting being a dick to me, and more ignorant than ever. he also started trying it on with other girls. but it still really hurts. My friends say i was being used. It feels horrible, how he just dropped me like that. And now i think i like bryan, and cant stop thinking about him...
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not going to prom with my bf
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 5:25 pm
My boyfriend and I have only been official for about a week. We're both seniors but we haven't talked about prom yet (I had a date but it's not going to work out). We'll, he also already had a date lined up and I'm not sure if they're still going together. I know the girl he was/is planning to go with and she hasn't said anything about them not going so I'm not sure. She's not really a friend of mine or anything, I just know her from class but we still talk sometimes.
Well anyway, I was planning on asking him about but I'm not sure what I should say to him if he says that they still have their plans. I don't want to be a bitch and tell him that he has to break the plans because that would be really mean to her. But, ...
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He broke up with me, and we are back together, but now he ha
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 5:24 pm
Okay I am 17 years old and I am dating a 19 year old guy who graduated from my school last year. We met over the summer and have had a great relationship for 8 months. We broke up because I was "controlling" him and "changing" his lifestyle. We talked it out and he wanted to be able to talk to his best friend (who is his ex g/f, and had recently tried to fight me.. is that normal for him to talk to her? should I be jealous?) and he didn't want to go to my Junior Prom, and he didn't want to party anymore. Those were the terms. I agreed. (of course, I am in love) Well now that prom is getting closer I wanted him to go, so I asked him and he just says "he doesn't want to." Should I be okay with that? I mean I even...
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what do guys look for in girls
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 4:27 pm
It would be cool if only boys answered this question as I guess they would know best...
What do guys look for in girls? Hair, makeup, clothes? A certain way of acting? Anything that you guys like? I rate, and thanks in advance
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I regret breakup, but ex-gf says we'll never get back togeth
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 4:23 pm
My girlfriend "Allison" and I broke up about six months ago, after a 3-year relationship (a year in the same city before I had to move away, then a year of long-distance, then she moved halfway across the country to join me, and we lived together for a year before breaking up). With every other breakup I've ever had, I felt worst immediately afterwards, and then felt better and better over time, but this time it's just the opposite; I felt pretty good at first, and have felt worse and worse since. I was really sad to lose Allison, because in many ways we were fantastic together. But we spent most of that last year fighting and making each other miserable, and it seemed like that would never change, so I was sure we'd done the r...
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does he like me or he is leading me on
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 3:54 pm
Okay i really am haveing a hard time telling if this boy i am crazy about likes me, lets call him joe. The signs are there but than some stuff really set me off. Like he will call me and one time he grabbed my hand , and he'll flirt and say cute things , but than sometimes he'll go talk to his ex girlfriend , because he knows it gets me mad. For christmas he got this girl and me a braclet, mine broke cause im soo careful with my things , so after christmas time they went out and broke up and she gave the braclet back to joes younger brother and joe asked for it and gave it to me. yea we went out for like a day, he dumped me. But sometimes he'll say i love you on the phone. and he'll do things that i would think the signs of liking me . But ...
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Oh boys.
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 3:35 pm
Im 13, female. And in the 7th grade.
I like a boy named Alex, Alex has a girlfriend named "Jessica" (THATS MY NAME ALSO, so you know.) & I have gym with alex and he always calls me "Jess" even though he thinks i cant stand it, (but i really do love it when he calls me jess) and like everytime i see him he just starts yelling "OMGOD ITS JESS, HIII JESS!!" all loud, and me and him act like we hate each other really bad, but we dont really "hate" eachother, and its kinda seems to me like its like how they used to tell you when your mean to somebody you really like them. But i dont know if he likes me. But see just yesterday i told him i couldnt stand him and he was like.. "aw common you c...
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