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not going to prom with my bf
My boyfriend and I have only been official for about a week. We're both seniors but we haven't talked about prom yet (I had a date but it's not going to work out). We'll, he also already had a date lined up and I'm not sure if they're still going together. I know the girl he was/is planning to go with and she hasn't said anything about them not going so I'm not sure. She's not really a friend of mine or anything, I just know her from class but we still talk sometimes.
Well anyway, I was planning on asking him about but I'm not sure what I should say to him if he says that they still have their plans. I don't want to be a bitch and tell him that he has to break the plans because that would be really mean to her. But, you're supposed to go to prom with your boyfriend! What would y'all do?
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It's been a week. I have to say, you can't really hold anything against him if he decides to keep those plans. you said this was about you deciding how you feel about him going with someone else. I think you already have you mind made up you just asking if people agree. A relationship grows on trust. If he decides to keep those plans, just see if you could join them after ward, if they are going to do something with a group of people.
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Ask him. Just ask what his plans for prom are. Tell him you understand if he had a prior commitment but your plans fell through. Just tell him you need to know so you aren't assuming things one way or the other. :)
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