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I slept with a guy and now hes being a dick.
Im a girl, and im 16 years old. okay, a few months ago, i did stuff with this guy called Bryan. We did stuff several times at different parties. Hed be nice to me on the night, but after that, like at school and stuff, hed just kinda ignore me. but it wasnt so bad, hed speak on msn. sometimes i wondered if he was using me, so i tried talking to him about it, and he told me it was fine and he wasnt using me. But i feel used. WE havent done anything in a while as hes starting being a dick to me, and more ignorant than ever. he also started trying it on with other girls. but it still really hurts. My friends say i was being used. It feels horrible, how he just dropped me like that. And now i think i like bryan, and cant stop thinking about him. even though i know its a waste of time, but i just wish he liked me, and i dont know what to do. ive tried talking to him but he either ignores me, or convinces me that IM wrong. He doesnt even seem to like me, even as just a friend, and always blanks me. Ive done nothing wrong...but basically he just doesnt care about my feelings and doesnt wanna know about anything to do with me.
i dont understand why im so different from anyone else. Im not jelous, im just hurt. He used to be so nice to me, and now hes evil to me. He talks to everyone else apart from me, and hes rude to my face and insulting, behind my back. Please help!
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He's a dick. You were used. You're not different, you may not be the first, and you won't be the last that he does this to. Don't try to win him back, and if he decides he wants you, don't take him back, because he probably won't change. I know it's hard, and it hurts, but it'll get better. You are not in the wrong.
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i hate to say it, but it sounds like this guy was using you! It sounds like he wasnt very nice and that once he got what he wanted out of you, he stopped taking interest. What i would do is warn these other girls hes talking to, they shouldn't have to go through the same thing you are. As for the tension between you two, the only advice i can give is to confront him, ask him flat out whats going on, other than that it feels as though you've tried everything.
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He was nice to you because you gave him what he wanted (sleeping with him). Now that he's gotten what he wanted, he dropped you like a bad habit. He's an idiot and it was horrible what he did.
Ignore him. Also, don't be mean to him or try to get revenge. You may think it will make you feel good at first, but that only shows him that you're still hung up on him.
Don't get a "rebound guy," either. Going out with a guy you have no feelings for just because of what Bryan did is disrespectful to the "rebound guy." It would lead him to think that you have feelings for him, and you don't. It would only break his heart and you don't want that to happen.
Don't sit around the house watching reruns of "Friends." That will only make you feel worse. Get support from friends. Do what you love. Take up a new hobby.
Learn from this. Make sure that you get to know a guy before you do anything with him.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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Just ignore him. He doesn't deserve your time, or your thoughts. It sucks to be used, but just learn from that mistake and don't make it again. Definitely don't keep hooking up with him! Maybe this experience can help you in the future so that you won't find yourself in this situation again. The minute a guy treats you like that after you've hooked up with him, just move on and push him out of your life before you're even attached. He's not worth it.
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