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He broke up with me, and we are back together, but now he ha
Okay I am 17 years old and I am dating a 19 year old guy who graduated from my school last year. We met over the summer and have had a great relationship for 8 months. We broke up because I was "controlling" him and "changing" his lifestyle. We talked it out and he wanted to be able to talk to his best friend (who is his ex g/f, and had recently tried to fight me.. is that normal for him to talk to her? should I be jealous?) and he didn't want to go to my Junior Prom, and he didn't want to party anymore. Those were the terms. I agreed. (of course, I am in love) Well now that prom is getting closer I wanted him to go, so I asked him and he just says "he doesn't want to." Should I be okay with that? I mean I even offered to pay for everything. He is my b/f, shouldn't he just go with me?
-hoplessly dateless, but not single.
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Well, I really don't think you should be completely okay with that.
It seems to me that YOU are the one doing all the compromising here. What is he doing for you?
Prom is pretty important to most girls so I don't think it is really right for him not to go with you. I think you should go (if you want to) with or without him.
In all honesty, if he doesn't do a little changing for you, I would consider looking elsewhere for a guy who will. He seems to be asking for a break up.
If the ex is his "best friend", I don't suppose there is a lot you can do about him talking to her, so long as that is where it ends. Being jealous is natural. :)
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