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ex is on my mind
when i say that my ex has been on my mind a lot lately. i dont mean, when im sexually with my bf or anything. but sometimes when im alone or wiht my friends i think about him. my family moved next door to him a few days ago. we broke up about 5 months ago. i was really hurt. i know i loved him and still do. but i love my bf now. my new bf was my first. and he is so sweet. he is perfect. but how can i stop thinking about my ex. i dont feel like im being loyal to my bf. plez help
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You ARE being loyal to you boyfriend, like I have explained before to girls its completely normal to not forget your ex boyfriend. & to even sometimes have thoughts of them. I mean, everytime I get a new boyfirend I always think of the last one, no matter what my feelings are for the new one. Once you care about someone a tremendous ammount, they pretty much always stay there, in the back of your head. & its a curiosity thing. You think, what if we were still together, whats he doing, whats he thinking about, who does he like now. Things of that sort. & its common & normal. Dont worry about a thing. As long as you understand the line between thoughts & actions. Thoughts about ex's stay in your head and their okay but once they become actions with him then their bad. So as long as its thinking, your being loyal. If you still feel bad though ttalk to your current boyfriend about it and explain to him that your ex has been on your mind and its really bugging you because you think it could effect your relationship. Im sure he will understand and if hes really caring and perfect he will be there for you to talk about it too.
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well ive been in your situaition once before. if you think about it how do you know that your bf dones not have one of his ex's on his mind most of the time...reality is that yoy dont know what's going on in his head and he doesnt know what going on in yours...what i did was talk to my friends about it and they told me that i couldnt help it all...i mean even now i still think about my ex because i still do really love him alot and i really care for him and there's nothing that you can do about it to get him off your mind..not unless you train yourself to stop and overtime eventually he''ll be on your mind less...if you feel good enough about it that you can tell your current bf without him getting mad at you then do so but chances are that he's going to get mad and a little jealous...you can aslo talk to your ex (if you two still talk) i did that and he ended up feeling the same way and i had to try my best to not let all of that interfere with my current relationship because it wasnt fair to my boyfriend... do you get all of this or no?
hope i helped..*** if you need more clarification e-mail me!!
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