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families hate eachother..
okay well you see.. me and this kid // we'll call him louis =] okay well me and louis went out in the summer and i liked him just not as much as you usually should like someone when your going out with them.. but everything was fine untill me and his cousin got into a fight and to make a long story short i called my brother to pick me up .. i told him the story.. he flipped out on "louis's" sister and now we arent allowed to hang out and in any means go out probably ever again.. but me and him really like eachother and i actually like him a lot this time but the only thing that is holding us back from going out is the family situation. i know its not the best thing to do and i dont want a leture on not lying but we were just thinking of not telling our parents but what could i say to him to like make him relize its okay and then for us to be together? ill rate high =] by the way 14/f
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okay well if you are happy together and you really want to be together then you're family should be alright with it and i am sure that if you would apologize (you would do it if you wanted to go out with "Louis") to the cousin and talk to the family about it enough and then show them what kind of a person that you are so that they dont think of you as a bad person. Then you could talk to YOUR family and make sure that they are okay with everything and you could have a TALK with your brother and he should say alright and go along with itr and give louis a chnce instead of going with not liking his cousin and also not liking him. Your families should let you to make you happy.
Kate♥
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Seems to me the fight was with the cousin and sister. Your brother probably should have stayed out of it. Of course I don't know the situation.
Anyway, I think you should get your parents to see that you and him were not fighting with each other. You aren't dating the cousin or sister, and your brother doesn't have to have anything to do with any of them again.
Sneaking around really just isn't a good idea. Think the parents are upset now just let them find out that little piece of news! You will be grounded from seeing him forever and you will lose their trust in you. Those are pretty big consequences.
Good luck. :)
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