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Molested as a child, and just realized it


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 6:06 pm

I was molested when I was between 6-8 years old. It's funny in a sick way because I can't even remember how old I actually way, I can't remember the names of the two boys, I can hardly even remember the sex. I remember the fear so vividly that my heart's racing as Im'm typing this. It's also funny because a decade passed where I didn't feel anything about what happened. I never cried about it, talked about it, I barely entertained the thought of it, not because it was painful but because it was like an errant thought. It was like losing your tooth, just a part of life. I actually feel immensely stupid now when I think of all the effects of that incident that I never recognized to have been caused by that. Until a couple days ago, I never ev...

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Types of clothes that would look good on me?


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:42 pm

Please take note I'm no the bigger side.
Here are a few pictures of me so you can get a better descision on types of clothes that would look good on me.

I love plaid shirts and babydoll type shirts.
I tend to wear lots of sweatshirts in the winter.
And I only wear converse, flipflops, or Uggs.
Fyi.

Orange hair, more strawberry blonde-ish. Orange really comes out in the sun.
Pale skin.
Mad freakles in the summer.
Green eyes.

One - http://tinypic.com/r/sy36kw/5
Two - http://tinypic.com/r/4h32nc/5
Three - http://tinypic.com/r/2yyxeu8/5

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nationide medical summer college course??


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:32 pm

im 16 and i qualified nation wide for a medical college course for summer. were going to study and live and on hand help. its sooo amazing to me i wana go so bad. i want to be a doctor of many types. :) it made me so happy to get such a big thing in the mail with a gold seal and many stamps :) but the thing it it costs nearly $3000 and i dont have the money for that. and my friends dont want me to go. and im shy around new people and il be going across the country alone and living there for a week or two. its my dream to do stuff like this. but im scared. and dont have enough $. what can i do, what should i do, any advice on this?? also has anyone else ever done this and could tell me about it?? also how could i fix the money and shyness issues? 16/f

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mtf hormonal therepy...


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:25 pm

my best friend wants to get mtf hormonal therepy and become a girl. he has a pretty messed up life and he just got out of drug rehab. how can i convince him not to do the therepy. hes an amazing guy but hes bi and a druggie, hes told the condom broke and thats how he came along, i like him as a friend and more. how can i help him i dont want him hurt

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Right or wrong?


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:25 pm

Most guys don't want you to come crawling back to them right? because my boyfriend just VERY recently broke up with me and hasn't talked to me.I plan on not contacting him,changing my relationship status,changing my facebook picture,and making my status's look like im moving on because I know he will see them.I want him back more than anything.Am I doing the right thing by pretty much not acknowledging him? Usually I end up begging and repeatedly contacting and it has NEVER EVER worked.advice?

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shaved stomach and back?


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:23 pm

17/f

well i sorta have a hairy stomach and back. like you can see the hairs up close, but from far away its not noticable. like the hairs are light brown. anyways.. i'm wondering if i should shave the hairs off? or leave them on? Waxing is not an option.

If i shave it, will the hairs grow back darker and faster? like leg hair?

thanks!

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Do you think he forgot about me yet?


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:17 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me about 2-3 days ago.We were together for like a little over 3 months,very attatched and were so happy.I had no idea the break up was even coming,it just popped up.Ofcourse I cried right then and there but when he texted me the next day saying" Hey i know you probably don't care but im sorry." and i responded with " i do care but i agree we needed some time apart" then he said "thanks for being cool about all this" and i didn't respond further.And we havent spoken to eachother since. My friends have talked to him and told me he's sad and my friends have told him that i'm a little sad too.Since I was to clingy before,I will refuse to text him first.I'm just wondering if he's forgotten...

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why did he kiss her


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:07 pm

female 16....i like this guy and he likes me but we both dont want relationships. he dont want one b/c of lacroose and im just not ready for one. im not ready b/c i have realyyyyyyy bad trust issues. anyway to my question he is on my friends bus and my friend was texting me and told me that he was kissing this other girl and i dont know what to do. i mean i really like him and it really hurt to find that out. and no one in our school knows that we talk and stuff so i guess he figured if he kissed her i wouldnt find out but i did. and i dont know what i should do about this whole situation. like in gona hang out with him this weekend b/c its spring break. so should i ask him about it or should i just leave it and see if he tells me. b/c i do...

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Growing my hair longer.


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:48 pm

I want to grow my hair like two inches longer by august would be nice. I was wondering if there is any vitamins or other natural ways to do it. I've heard certain vitamins make your hair grow pretty fast. I was wondering what these are, if there safe, healthy, and if they have any other effect on you. Thanks!

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Eyelashes growing back??


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:02 pm

Ok so a couple of months ago i was tryin to fix our cooker and when it was too late i was near enough engulfed in flames... Luckily i wasnt hurt or burned at all just my hair was a bit singed. My eyebrows were a bit burnt away and the hair on my arm was all gone pretty much. but thats all grown back now and normall. my eyelashes on the other hand! were burnt and kinda crispy so i usd to some toenail clippers and cut the singed stupid looking things off. my right eyelashes havee grown back to normall but my left eyelashs look wierd.
the left part of my eyelashes (furthest from my nose) have grown back normall. but the left half (closest to my nose) are still very short. Its not noticeable untill i point it out but its just a little wi...

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Alright. Sorry if it's long.


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 3:44 pm

There's this boy I'm starting to like but we have no classes together so my friend tells him to get on facebook so we can talk and she tells him all the stuff but he never holds true to what he says he's going to do. Like Friday he said "I will most definitely be on facebook" and he didn't go on. I know I'm thinking to hard, maybe he got caught up in something and could not go on. My friend says everytime she says my name he smiles though. However, he can't talk to me. Why is that? Do you think he likes me? Thanks.

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breast cancer


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 3:36 pm

ok im noot trying to insult touch anyones nerves here.. merely asking for some help on homework =)
iv had to do a lifestyle questionaire.. and fiill it out (as a made up person)
and then we could write about it
i decided i want my guy to have had breast cancer.
HAD = past tense... therefore he doesnt have it anymore
would this issure affect how he excersizes? or any of his everyday life?

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diet pills


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 1:15 pm

are diet pills effective when paired with exercise? i know the common sense thing would just be to eat better, but i'm naturally pretty thin, so having a fast metabolism i've eaten horrible my whole life. also i live on a college campus so good nutritional food is hard to come by. i do go to the gym 3-5 times a week, so would diet pills help me speed up the process at all? i just have about 5-10 pounds i'd like to lose.

also do diet pills affect birth control?

thanks! 19/f

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15 on an interview


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 1:14 pm

15/f

i decided that i am going to go and get a job. i am going to fill out applications tomorrow. well i dont know what to wear when i get an interview. i like forever 21 and american eagle. i was also wondering if i can have links to what i should wear from someplace such as AE and forever 21 please. thanks.

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Boyfriend broke up w/me


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 12:12 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me ..2 and a half days ago.The only communication we had was a text he sent me the next morning and i responded and he responded one more time and I didn't write back.He's away on a mini vacation right now but I'm playing my cards right and not texting him and giving him space because that's his reason for breaking up with me.I miss him like crazy and I've never been so depressed ever.He told two of my friends(separately) that he's sad and misses me too.I wrote him a two page letter but I don't know when the right time to give it to him is. I don't know if he plans on talking to me when he gets back and I won't see him until school starts again (in like a week) unless we hangout ..which is doubtful.The letter isn'...

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help with dream


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 9:48 am

i need some help with this dream.. can someone tell me what it means or anything? thank you. 17/f junior in highschool. [sorry if its long]

in my dream i was sleeping, when my dad walked into my room and told me that i got a 20 out of 150% on the math part of the HSPA [its a test that tells you if you pass junior year or not, and if you dont pass, then you take a class for the entire year of senior year and you take the test again, if you fail again, then you dont graduate] and then my dad walked out of my room. i felt really upset, went into my shower and cried. then some lady appeared sitting on my toilet and was trying to help me with math problems. and i kept crying and stomping my feet. then my boyfriend was in the bathr...

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Pokémon Silver


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:42 am

Where can I catch Abra in Pokémon silver?

Thanks.
<3

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A very confusing friendship..


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:51 am

I'm 16/f. Theres this guy(let's call him bob) and weve been friends for 2 years now. He liked me all last year but I had a boyfriend and whenever I was interested in bob, he wasn't interested in me. We were at the same school and we were pretty much best friends. It's been around two months since I switched schools and we are no where as near as good of friends as we used to be. I talk to him every once in a while and now I realized I REALLY REALLY like him. He's coming to my house in two days. My best friend(a girl) will also be here. How do I know if he likes me or how do I give him a hint that I have feelings for him without making it that obvious?

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LAS VEGAS


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:22 am

Do I have to be 18 to get a bus ticket from Los Angeles to Las Vegas?

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macbook, msn and webcam :D


Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:18 am

okay, well i just got a macbook laptop and im still learning how to use everything. i have put msn on it and i want to show people my webcam. slight problem though, i dont know how to get it working. if its possible could someone give me step by step on how to get it working :D also, im pretty bad at using computers so make the instructions as simple as possible please.
thanks XD

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