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How can I get him back?
Posted Thursday February 7 2013, 10:12 pm
Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl in 8th grade. My ex bf and I was together for 10 months or so then I broke up with him but last week I was thinking about it and I realized I was wrong. I wrote him a note asking him if he'd like to get back together and how I felt and I gave it to him but all he said was sorry but no thanks and last Thursday my friend asked him what up about the note and he said she just wasn't normal around me for way too long. I do admit I could be shy around him but I think if we talked more we could work it out. I really like him and miss him alot, how can I get him back?
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What it means when a guy...
Posted Thursday February 7 2013, 10:09 pm
If a guy is shy around a girl, but isn't around any other girl what does that mean? Also if he stares at the girl but hardly ever talks to her?
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Naked pics of exes
Posted Thursday February 7 2013, 5:11 pm
So my boyfriend(also the father of our 3 month old) and I have been having terrible problems ever since our daughter was born.
First, we fought all the time because he never wanted to spend any time with his daughter. He would much rather have been partying. -Let it be known that I am 21 and he is 22, almost 23.
THEN once we were starting to get over that, we got into it BIG time, because I found two thongs in his possession that weren't mine. He told me that he didn't even know he had them and that he didn't know who they even belonged to.
BUT THEN just a few minutes ago, I was on his laptop and found naked pics that he kept from girls that he was sleeping with. Why would he keep those? I feel ...
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Valentines day, and i dont know what to wear...
Posted Thursday February 7 2013, 12:25 pm
So im a male and i really dont know what to wear to the valentines dance and i have two dates(both girls-which are friends, and i like on of them) so i have two dates and i never wear shorts. I have a pair of jeans and a brown long pants, i have some good looking sweaters and one or two shirts that i really like... What do girls like? What do girls want that guys wear??
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Valentines, "friends", my friend and the one i like...
Posted Wednesday February 6 2013, 12:52 pm
So i sent two velo-grams (they are like letters of valentine, only it comes also with candy.) so i sent two velo-grams to the girl i like, and her best-friend which is also one of my friends, but my "friends" are called like this because they are ******** and because i have fun with them but they act really stupid. So these "friends" started making fun of me that i have no chance with her and now i feel really pissed about them. My best-friend which isn't a "friend" just found out by the best-friend of the girl i like that: she thinks im a great guy, and has lots of fun with me, but she loves her new boyfriend a lot,and she falls for older guys( this is bad cause im younger than her by quite a bit of months). B...
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Which man should I stay with?
Posted Wednesday February 6 2013, 10:18 am
I have been married for 25 years and have the sons ages 22,21,and 18, but my husband and I have not 'lived' together for the past ten years. The first five of those ten years my boys and spent living in Amman, Jordan with his family while he stayed here and while I talked to him almost every day he only actually came to see us only four times. Then when we moved back here, we lived together for three months when he decided that he wanted to go take a job in another state because the place he was working at here was closing, and the boys and I should stay here because they had just started school here. During the next three years things between us got really bad. He called me some times threatening to take our kids away from me, that I woul...
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I am 21 and my parents want me to give my baby up for adoption
Posted Wednesday February 6 2013, 7:32 am
I am 21 years old, and pregnant. I am about 4 months along. My boyfriend and I were living together, but now he has decided to beat me up and kick me out, so i live alone in a hotel. I told my dad I was pregnant and the first thing he said was "don't worry about anything, you have family who loves you and will help you." the next day he said "have you considered adoption for your baby? i want it to have the opportunity to have a normal life." what the fuck? I am an adult. it's not like i'm 16. I will admit, I don't have a job. I want to find one but there has been no luck. I have never had a real job. I have some mental problems. but it is mild autism and attention deficit disorder. people have always told me i can have ...
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How strange is it for a 21 year old woman to date a 38 year old man?
Posted Wednesday February 6 2013, 2:13 am
Would it be strange for me (a 22 year old woman) to date a 38 year old man? Have you ever dated someone 15-20 years older than you?
I did, when I was 18-19, I dated a 34 year old, and it did not work out because he was just looking for ''fun'' with a younger girl. It's not like I was looking for marriage right away. I just wanted someone who was serious enough to live with after about a year, and maybe have a long term relationship, and maybe get married. (He told me after 1 year that he never even saw us making it past 1 year, and broke up with me for another girl my age because I was "too serious" to presume that our relationship would turn into getting an apartment together.)(In fact, I found out he had dated gi...
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Setting too high standards for myself?
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 9:51 pm
I've gotten myself in a "rut". I can't meet a guy if my life depended on it. All i want is to find someone like the movies. Telling me they don't exist isn't good enough. I've been so scared I've actually been hidding myself. Enclosing myself in my room. Convincing myself the only way i can acchieve love is if i lose weight and change my clothes really become like all the other girls in the movies. I'm not like who i used to be. Going out every night and really having fun, instead i sit at home and watch tv. The easy answer would be: just get out there. But like always it is not as easy as it sounds. Maybe i'm just too harsh on myself?
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Does he still like me?
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 4:30 pm
my male bestfriend and i recently decided to take our relationship to the next level. i've been extremely busy lately and we dont go to he same school so i havent been able to see him. he said we should take a break because he doesnt want to be in a relationship in which he cant see his girlfriend, and said he'll wait until i'm ready. does he still like me? how do i win him back and prove to him that i love him?
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should i give him another chance?
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 1:54 pm
so before christmas i started talking to this guy, he is a friend of a friend (you know how it is) and we hit it off really well, were always on the phone to wach other, and he first said he loved me after like 3 weeks...
id just started my job when we first got to talking, its shift work, so not ideal, but he was working nights across the country aswell, so it made it hard to communicate. i would be doinng a day shift, finishing at 5, then he would start his shift at 7, well,the weekend came around and he was supposed to see me, but i wasnt very well. i told him that i felt deathly and would be at home in bed all weekend, and he accepted this.he text me once or twice on the saturday, but i was asleep so obv didnt reply... but then ...
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He says he can't keep up with us
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 11:36 am
Hello I am 18 year old female. I've been dating this guy for the past 4 months. He never asked me to be his girlfriend but from the start we spent time together and get lunch together, did things couples do. But one day he'd just disappear for a week or two without hearing from him. I respect people and if they need to be alone then that's fine, but he started doing this all the time. I'd ask him if i'd see him this weekend and he'd say no i'm out of town or no i work. Sometimes my friends would see him around campus on the days he said he had to work late, I know he was let out early. I would start to doubt him but then he talks to me and tells me he acts distant because he gets paranoid that I am going to move on. That's when we kinda bec...
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I feel so Embarrased I don't know what to do: I said hello to my friend's boyfriend but ignored the guy who came to see me?
Posted Tuesday February 5 2013, 10:45 am
This is going to be quite long... My very good friend introduced me toher boyfriend's friend via blackberry,she's been trying to hook me up with a lot of guys but I'm so scared of getting hurt bcos of my ex boyfriend.. I hadn't seen this guy, except thru d pictures we send to eachother we chat often and he tells me that he enjoys the conversations and he really likes me.. Well somedays ago, he told me he was coming to my school, in my school there are 2 campuses the law campus and the main campus which is for other courses, and these campuses are far away from eachother, I receive lectures on the law campus but I reside on the main campus. he told me he was coming to my school 5minutes to a lecture I had by 4pm, I told him that my lecture w...
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Sharing whole truths about a traumatic past situation
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 10:53 pm
Hi,
I have a past situation that still bugs me from time to time & I would appreciate a non judgemental outsiders advice who can step into both shoes please.
There is a long story to this situation, over about 4 years long but the same question remains...Do I tell my partner the whole truth about the situation or continue with him knowing parts or most of the truth, leave it in the past, let it go & move on?
I have been with my partner for 10 years (with a few breaks in between). He was around when this went on & does know a lot about it yet there are parts that I blocked out, feared revealing, were too painful, regretted, was a different person at the time & or traumatised by. Needless to say, certain...
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Shyness: I can talk to anyone but him?
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 9:47 pm
I'm 16 years old and I have a boyfriend. The problem is that I can't talk to him because I'm to shy too. He asked me why I don't talk to him much and I told him because I'm shy. We talked about it and it upsets both of us when I can't talk to him, but he says snarky comments to me when I talk to other people like, "Oh, you can have a conversation with them but you can't say two words to me!" What can I do to be able to talk to him???
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Love him or leave him?
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 7:45 pm
I am a 48 year old single mother of 2 young adult children. I met him 5 years ago and the chemistry and connection was so intense from that moment. Here is my problem.......I am so in love with this man, but he tells me that he wants to have his own biological children. He actually broke up with me in 2009 because he felt he had to do this even though he agrees (and so does EVERYONE who knows us and sees us together) that we have this incredible bond. We eventually hooked up again, but we seem to be Best Friends with Benefits. We are amazing together on every level...emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually. My kids adore him and he adores them. We are not a couple yet when we are together we do everything that couples do. He knows...
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What is happening? This seems a little bit too good to be true.
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 1:33 pm
there is this girl i like,and i have been flirting and talking to her. Shes a brave person and hugs people a lot including me. But today something weird happened and it seemed that she actually wanted me. So today at rehearsals for a play, the main actor wasn't there and she is the main actress, so she stared saying that she wants me to be him(and the two main people get kinda close..) then after that the directors wanted to talk to us and she asked me to sit next to her and i did. Then she asked me to wait for her and walk her out to the parking place and she asked me to give her a kiss on the cheek... does this mean anything? HELP?!
sorry for all the "then"s.
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My boyfriend takes other girls on dates, but he will not take me..
Posted Monday February 4 2013, 5:56 am
2 weekends ago, I found out by looking through my boyfriend's phone that he has been meeting up with this girl. I found out that he took her to a movie on one weekend and confronted him about it. (He has never taken me to the movies. In fact, we don't go on dates. Ever. We only went on one 'date' in our 8 month relationship, to a diner where he spent about $4.50 on each of our plates, and I recall he was being cheap and ordered water for both of us instead of soda. I thought by confronting him, he would stop taking this girl out. After all, he has been caught. This weekend, I went to my parents house for the weekend. I came back on Sunday to find a receipt on the floor for a moderately nice Meditteraneian restaurant. He spent 34 dollars to...
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New feelings, why do i have them?
Posted Sunday February 3 2013, 3:48 pm
Hello, recently i just broke up with my boyfriend, i just started university and we just both never really had time. So a couple weeks after we broke up i met this guy and i know him through my brother. so weve been talking and weve hung out a couple times. when i broke up with my exboyfriend i told myself that i wont have a boyfriend for a long time and that i need to focus on school. But now i really like this guy and im always thinking about him. i think i am starting to develop feelings for him, what do i do ? :(
Thanks kaaitlyn 18f
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How do i dance, which dance should i do?
Posted Sunday February 3 2013, 1:42 pm
so there is this girl i like and there is a "dance" on the 14th because of valentine. So i want to ask this girl to dance with me but i dont know how to dance well and i dont know which dance and son i should dance to. Anyone with suggestions? Anyone can teach me how to dance?
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