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How can I get him back?
Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl in 8th grade. My ex bf and I was together for 10 months or so then I broke up with him but last week I was thinking about it and I realized I was wrong. I wrote him a note asking him if he'd like to get back together and how I felt and I gave it to him but all he said was sorry but no thanks and last Thursday my friend asked him what up about the note and he said she just wasn't normal around me for way too long. I do admit I could be shy around him but I think if we talked more we could work it out. I really like him and miss him alot, how can I get him back?
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Best way is to move on with your life and show him what a great time you are having without him (don't pretend to be having fun and don't be in his face about it - have fun for real and be subtle).
This will also help your confidence and make you less shy about him.
Take up a sport or hobby, do some volunteering, be the best person you can be and if he really likes you... how can he resist?
Under no circumstances try to beg/stalk/seduce him back - either he will be pushed further away or he will comeback for the wrong reasons.
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Ok so your 13 and Im not judging you by young boyfriends or anything but next year you will be in highschool where there is so many more options. If he doesnt want to get back together with you then your going to just have to accept that and move on. Wait a year and you could possibly find someone much better than him. It might be worth the wait to find someone that your more interested in. Dont try holding on to your relationship with this guy because he doesnt feel the same way. It would be like holding on to nothing. Hope this helps!
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