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New feelings, why do i have them?
Hello, recently i just broke up with my boyfriend, i just started university and we just both never really had time. So a couple weeks after we broke up i met this guy and i know him through my brother. so weve been talking and weve hung out a couple times. when i broke up with my exboyfriend i told myself that i wont have a boyfriend for a long time and that i need to focus on school. But now i really like this guy and im always thinking about him. i think i am starting to develop feelings for him, what do i do ? :(
Thanks kaaitlyn 18f
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
its every womans natural instinct to be wanted, and to want someone.
just because you have feelings for this guy, doesnt mean your going to marry him next week...
start slow, ask him to hang out as friends, see if you actually like him enough for anything to potentially happen... it might just be that you are lonely after your break up.
if feelings are still there, tell him, maybe he will feel the same?
good luck, stay in touch xx
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Just do it. Who cares what you told your boyfriend? Are you really going to let an opportunity go away like that?
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You can't really control how you feel. If you think you like a guy, trying to ignore the feels might prove to be more distracting and time wasting. If you want you can simply just try to get to know him. If you want to focus on school at the same time, then simply set limits for when you can talk or hang out with him like with any other friend or commitment.
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