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I feel so Embarrased I don't know what to do: I said hello to my friend's boyfriend but ignored the guy who came to see me?
This is going to be quite long... My very good friend introduced me toher boyfriend's friend via blackberry,she's been trying to hook me up with a lot of guys but I'm so scared of getting hurt bcos of my ex boyfriend.. I hadn't seen this guy, except thru d pictures we send to eachother we chat often and he tells me that he enjoys the conversations and he really likes me.. Well somedays ago, he told me he was coming to my school, in my school there are 2 campuses the law campus and the main campus which is for other courses, and these campuses are far away from eachother, I receive lectures on the law campus but I reside on the main campus. he told me he was coming to my school 5minutes to a lecture I had by 4pm, I told him that my lecture would start at 4pm and end by 6pm, so it would be late to see me but unfortunately the lecturer said we wont have a class but just a test, while I was having this test he was calling me and texting, I couldn't answer the calls or the text bcos of the test... When I was done with my test, I replied his text that I would see him on the other campus which his familiar with and I ran to another friends room in a hurry to freshen up bcos I was looking messy, while I was doing that he was calling me and I didn't know because my phone was beneath my bag... So I just ran out of the hostel in a hurry to make it to the main campus and behold he was approaching the hostel of the law campus, I was suprised I greeted his friend which I was familiar with (my friends boyfriend) and I entered the car, the next thing this guy started insulting me he didn't even allow me explain why I wasn't picking up his calls he lashed at me and finally told me to get out of his car, and he drove off... I felt so useless, I felt like the floor could swallow me , and finally he deleted me off his blackberry contact going back to the other campus which I reside in I was in tears... I don't know what to do and I was already starting to like him until this happened..
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To be honest honey I dont know if this is the advice you want, but I will say what I am getting from this scenario. This guy seems like a major idiot, if he cannot understand that whilst you are in a lecture you may not be able to text back and if he wont even give you the time to explain then what you should ask yourself is what if.... If you guys did go out and you had to cram for an exam or do an all nighter last minute for an essay would he again lash out due to selfishness. You need a guy that will give you time to explain yourself if your late, a guy that understands the pressures that you are going through with your studies and a guy that wont fly off the handle and block you due to nothing. You can do so much better than this BOY and you should not feel embarrassed.
I hope I helped and that you find someone that appreciates a gd thing when he has it!!
Sorry if you felt I was harsh!!
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