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Setting too high standards for myself?
I've gotten myself in a "rut". I can't meet a guy if my life depended on it. All i want is to find someone like the movies. Telling me they don't exist isn't good enough. I've been so scared I've actually been hidding myself. Enclosing myself in my room. Convincing myself the only way i can acchieve love is if i lose weight and change my clothes really become like all the other girls in the movies. I'm not like who i used to be. Going out every night and really having fun, instead i sit at home and watch tv. The easy answer would be: just get out there. But like always it is not as easy as it sounds. Maybe i'm just too harsh on myself?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You're right, getting out there isn't as easy as it sounds. But honestly, that's what you have to do.
You don't have to be like every girl in a movie to get a guy. You pretty much just have to be yourself. You'll hear that a thousand times but it's true.
You don't have to go out looking for a guy. Go out and have fun. If you meet a guy, great. If not, you still have time.
Just get yourself looking good and feeling comfortable, get some friends and go out.
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