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distant..


Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 8:45 am

Hey okay so lately ive been so confused..
Ive been going out with my bf about 5 almost 6months now and lately I just don't feel bothered anymore.
Its like I get a text and im like ugh" or "meh"
I hate feeling like this I really do and I don't know what brought it on.
Like when we text i feel really disinterested but when I see him its different its like I forget all about it?
Hes the sweetest guy ive ever gone out with yet at the moment I seem to be pushing him away and closing myself off!
He sugested taking my shopping and then to dinner after last night and its almost like im feeling mad at him for being so nice to me..
I know if I break up with him il be throwing away one of...

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Can i stay in america if i marry him?


Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 6:24 am

I'm 19, and planning on moving to America. I'm going there for someone who i know very well that i met online(but never in person) and i want to know, how can i go about doing it? Before i go, do i need a working visa? or can i tell them the truth, that i met a man online and i want to be with him in america? Also, If i'm planning on going there to marry him, do i even need a working visa? a friend told me if i tell customs or whoever the truth about how we've only met online, that they might not let me into America. Is that true? I'm Australian, and I really need to get there and live there so i can be with him, and of course, i'd be living with him. so tell me, how does all this work?

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Giving up.


Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 5:37 am

My life has hit rock bottom. I have no hope left for myself. This year has been one of the worst years I have faced in the 20 years of my life. My college grades are anything but good. My dog passed away last month. My boyfriend of 8 months who I love, is hurt because i lied to him that i was a virgin. He won't even talk to me properly. I have absolutely no friends who I can talk to about anything. I want to end my life. I just cant continue living in pain each day with no one around to take care of me or just hold me and say that "It's gonna be okay". I try to optimistic but I'm just too lonely. What do I do?

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Tutor needing to pay tax?


Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 4:09 am

Hey there,
I'm a 18 year old tutor in Brisbane, Australia, and I was wondering if I'm suppose to pay taxes. I currently do not, is what I'm doing illegal? I dont have a solid amount of students or anything, they just call me if they need me and decide another lesson or not on the spot. But I do save spots for them just in case. And I dont rely on this job at all. I dont earn a whole lot as I dont have many students. Please help with this confusion as I dont know if I'm doing something illegal or not. If this helps, I earn no more than $800 a month, at most, if I'm lucky.

Thank you.

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My dad's reading incest "literotica"!!?


Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 12:08 am

The only computer in my house is in my room. My dad is the only one who used it today and in a minimized window is "Literotica." I flipped back through the pages and he's reading titles in the Incest section under the searches "love," "lust," and "daddy."

I am his only daughter. I'm 17. He's 60.

I'm really disturbed. I've seen it on the history before but I've figured, everyone has strange fetishes. But incest?! This is really grossing me out. I feel like I have to hide my body now around him. I dress like most teenage girls-- short shorts, low cut tops-- and now I just want to cover up and die.

Should I bring it up with my mom? She's the only other one l...

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eating disorder :( sorry its long


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 11:51 pm

kill me now! iv had belumia 3 times already and it gotten really bad to the point it tore my family apart.every time i had it it was triggered off my stress or family issues, but this time everything is good im not stressed, im not overwieght and there are no family issues..i even have a seriouse bf now so i like everything in my life at the moment.

I DONT UNDERSTAND!! i started to get bad thoughts about food about a week and a half ago.. i told my bf about them and he said if it get worse we will get help. but the last few days have been bad... iv started throwing up again and feeling horrible when i eat food.

i havent had courage to bring myself to tell my bf. im so scared how can i get there thoughts out of...

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Taking things to the next level w/ my boyfriend.


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 10:54 pm

Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now & i'm ready to take things to the next level, but i'm nervous does sex hurt? what does it feel like? what are some ways I can satisfy my boyfriend in bed? HELPPPPPLEASSSSEEE!


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the guy i likes number


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 9:10 pm

13/f
okayy...well today i got a txt message from my friend telling me that the guy i kinda like likes me back..a while back he asked her for my # but i told her not to give it to him cuz i was kinda nervous..but now i REALLY wanna talk to him over spring break but i dont have his number...should i ask him for it..or what....any suggestions on what i should do??

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single girl now wants mr right


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 8:30 pm

I'm in college and have had many relationships in the past. I've loved and lost like everyone else, but I have taken it far to the point where I'm very closed off and barely let anyone near my heart. Everyone knows me as the independent single girl. It's started to bother me now, because I really want a boyfriend, or just a guy to confide in and have fun with. I'm never the girl that complains "I'm lonely", but honestly, I am now. I'm trying to open myself up, but my friends say I come off as very unapproachable. How can I get guys to see me as open and friendly? I smile more now and try to be more talkative, but still the feedback I get is that I'm cold and look like I don't want to be bothered, even though it's untentional. (20/F)

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anyone know this song?


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 7:41 pm

anyone know the song playing in the background?
http://stickam.com/viewMedia.do?mId=178014394

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My Best Guyfriend.


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 7:28 pm

17/f.

There's this guy whom I've known since 8th grade. We are really close, but no one really knows because we primarily talk online since we never see each other in school. He used to like me for a long time in 8th grade, but I didn't like him like that, but we've stayed really close friends.

For years though, we've been playing the question game, and it's gotten really intense. I've never thought of it as more than a game since we've never done anything in person or via webcam / pictures. I think I may have recently developed a tiny crush on him though, and this is bad for a couple reasons.

1. We are going to be hanging out this upcoming weekend and I don't want my hormones to get the bes...

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Found a kitten and now someone is looking for him. . .


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 6:34 pm

So, I found a kitten super early monday morning outside my apartment and he ran right up to me and started meowing and purring and I brought him upstairs and fed him (he was really hungry) and he was also really dirty. I have since taken him to the vet and had all his vaccines done and am planing on getting him neutered on the 20th. I already love him and I am one of those people who considers animals to be like humans.

Today, I am walking around the neighborhood and there are flyers everywhere with the kitten I found on them. I don't know what to do. I don't think I can give him up (it would be like giving away a human baby) and my other cat already has bonded with him.

Should I ignore the flyers and not do ...

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does age really make a difference?


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 6:25 pm

I am a 17 year old girl and i am interested in a younger boy, he is 14. Believe me, i know it sounds bad but if you knew how he treated me, you might understand. The thing is i will be 18 in the month of may, and he will only be 15 in October. Also, it's weird to think, my brother is 12 and the boy i'm interested in is 14. He acts very mature for his age, even with his friends!... and looks like he is 17 or 18. One person that I've talked to about it said he might be infatuated by a pretty older girl that has come his way. Honestly, if that were true, he might have just made a move on me already and he hasn't. My mother mentioned that it's illegal when i turn 18 and if i pissed off anyone in the family, they could turn it into a legal manne...

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age difference confused


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 5:29 pm

I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 17 year old girl and I'll be 18 in May. I really like this boy but he is 14 years old and will only be 15 in October. My mom just found out and she told me that it's up to me, but it'll be against the law when i turn 18, i could go to jail if something goes wrong and someone in his family wants to start trouble. Honestly, yes, the age gets to me sometimes, but he acts so much older even with his friends, but he is 14 and my brother is 12, it's weird when i think about it, but when im with him, its amazing, and he is so sweet to me and shares what he feels unlike other guys. I also wonder does he think im amazing, and sweet, and everything he says about me just because im older them him, is he infatua...

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when push comes to shove


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 5:17 pm

whenever my "lovely" boyfriend and i make plans a few days before it never happens... and its frustrating and he says it me all the time... but when he comes home im always dressed waiting then he tells me how nice i look and asks me if we can go tomorrow... in my world tomorrow never comes and it never will... do you think he is just embrassed to be with me in public? we dont do nothing together never.... somedays i dont even see us with a future... should i even wait to see if things change

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I think I may be...


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:59 pm

Okay so I'm 22/F and I'm in a relationship with a 24/M. I think I maybe bi...and I'm curious to maybe starting dating a girl or hooking up with a girl. My boyfriend says he doesn't mind it. Are there any websites to meet girls who are into hooking up with girls in a relationship? Or where could I meet a girl who would be interested in something like this. Any advice? Has anyone felt this way? Please share your experience! Thanks!

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I'm a boyfriend stealer.


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:56 pm

17/f I have a reputation in school as a boyfriend stealer. The friends I do have, don't ever let me meet there boyfriends or near boys they like. I don't mean to take anyones boyfriend, and I never date any of my friends boyfriends but they always end up liking me. I really don't know why I'm just myself and
nice. But I was wondering on ways to NOT flirt.

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Lifeless anorexic sick friend.


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:44 pm

17/f my best friend is anorexic, she has been since last summer it's really bad. She looks like a Skelton and it's really gross. She probably weighs 80 pounds. She is lifeless and boring and always in bad moods. Before this crazy diet she did she was the funnest craziest girl I ever met. I'm considering telling my guidance counselor because I'm really afraid she is going to die. What do you think I should do? I know I can't control her, but I'm not going to watch her die either. People have given me multiple anorexic warning sheets to give her. It's just really bad and I don't know what to do

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i heard...


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:20 pm

i heard dr. pepper makes your vagina stink.? is that true?

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grr! >:o


Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:17 pm

so i am majorly in love with this guy! he's the only one i wanna be with.. i told him i loved him and he didnt say it back.. which i didnt expect him to. but the thing about him is that he isnt very open about his feelings and i am obviously! how do i get him to open up to me? i really wanna be with him!!! :( thanks..

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