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My ex is engaged and I'm devastated?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2013, 3:37 pm

22/F
My ex and I were together for 5 years off and on. We broke up last september but continued to try to make things work up until november when he just stopped talking to me. He'd always break up with me and then go running back to his ex for a week or two and then come back to me expecting me to accept him and like an idiot I did. this went on for 5 years! Well a mutual friend texted me yesterday asking me if I knew that he was engaged and I completely fell apart. I'm pretty sure he's engaged to that girl and I always knew the day would come where he never came back but I guess I just always hoped he would. Well anyways I lost it and I feel completely heart broken I can't even talk to my current bf about it because I know he'll be...

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Bicurious?


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 11:05 pm

I have a boyfriend, but I want to hook up with a girl. Not a specific girl, just a girl. I want to experience what it's like hooking up with another girl because it looks fun! I think I've been watching too much lesbian porn. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my boyfriend. We've been together for over 2 years and we have great sex. And me wanting to hook up with a girl has nothing to do with our relationship. I'm just curious. Is this wrong? What should I do? Oh, and my boyfriend has no clue. I'm pretty sure he'd go nuts. And sorry for the raunchiness.

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Moving in together


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 10:31 pm

I'm 21 female and my boyfriend is 22. We've been together for 3 years this month. Almost our entire relationship has been long distance since I've been going away to college. First year 3 hours apart and the past two only 1 hour. Relationship is going good but this whole seeing each other once a week been together for three years I'm so ready for the next level where we can move in. He is finishin college this year which he's attending at our home town and still lives with his parents. His parents shelter him and are obsessed with him and wouldn't want him to move out period. I mention things to him all the time about moving in and he kinda pushes it aside or makes excuses. I still have 2 years left of school after this year and I can't ima...

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Guy at school!


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 6:51 pm

Alright, so there's this guy at school, (brown hair, really dark brown eyes, glasses, lots of freckles)
and there's me, (blonde, blue eyes, glasses) but he's in eighth grade and I'm in seventh. For valentines day I bought him a lollypop that says, 'BE MINE' on it. I'm going to leave it on his backpack while he's at lunch (our grades have lunch together, but I'm going to wait behind)and I was wondering if I should leave my name on the note I'm going to put with it. it's just a post-it that says, I like you in cursive.
backround info:
we hang out at lunch recess and in the morning before school, we were debate partners, he's my best friend's cousin, and I really like him and I think almost everyone knows it. except for h...

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what can I do with my new boyfriend on valentines day


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 6:32 pm

I'm in the 8th grade, same for my boyfriend. We started dating yesterday and I got to thinking what could we do on valentines day?

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Moving to fast? Do I call I quits ?


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 5:38 pm

Me and my bf have been dating six days and yesterday he told me he loved me and now he's trying to tell me I can't hang out with my friends and is calling me babe we got into an arguement today because he said something that should not have been said about one of my friends what do I do( I'm 14 he's 16

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Get rid of Guilty and love, breaking up, pain


Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 1:08 am

Well I'm 24 now and I've started to love a girl (letz call her A) before 2 years ago. She didn't like me first, however eventually I motivated her to love me and she began to start loving me more than I did.
Few months passed and I felt some lack of interest on her than the past. Anyhow I tried really hard to love her and keep her happy. So the relationship flawed as normal for two years.
But for a few months we are having many arguments and quarrels and always those ends after a big stupid shout from me. She maintain the silence and always needs to neutralize and be clam me down and accept the quilt to her account and reunite. Like these incidents, I felt I couldn't live like this for entire my life and I proposed to break u...

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boyfriend wonders?


Posted Monday February 11 2013, 11:54 pm

I am 17 year old female. I have been dating this kid for about 4 years off and on now. I have came to find that he was skyping with this guy and he masturbated on camera for this guy and he didn't tell me about it, but I found out by going through his ipad. I confronted him about it and he got mad cuz i went through his stuff. Then the next day he told me that he did and he was really sorry about it and he didn't like it at all whn he was doing it. That he just wanted to know if he was into guys or not, he told me he isn't and he knows it for sure now. But i still have thought that he maybe into guys and doing things just by the way he acts and things he says. Please help me. What do i do??

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How do i get her to like me???


Posted Monday February 11 2013, 5:11 pm

Hi im a 15 year old guy from London.i barely know this girl but i really like her!she knows i want to get with her and at a party last night she said she didnt really want to but might another time.the main reason i like her is that at our age all our friends go out and get drunk every week..but she refuses to because she'll regret it later in life.i have so much respect for her because i dont drink either and the pressure is crazy especially for girls.she seems really down to earth and has the nicest eyes ive ever seen(like mila kunis).i really want to go out with her and if i did i would let her know how smart,brave and beaytiful she is...all i want to know is how to get her to like me back? I would be the best boyfriend ever

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i love him but he dont


Posted Monday February 11 2013, 7:40 am

i am a 20 yr girl,i love him very much but he dnt,he always ignore me,abuse,ambaressed me...we also had physical relation,i knw him from past 6 years,what shud i do,i want to forget him.

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messy situation, but I dont wanna give up?


Posted Monday February 11 2013, 12:02 am

I was with this guy for 2 years and during the first 8 months, this guy I use to work with came into my life and made me have mixed emotions. I was torn between both of them, but I decided to stay with my boyfriend because I was scared to take a risk.

Well the last 8 months of my relationship, I was trying hard to find the other guy because I realized I made a mistake and I felt terrible about it. Well about a month ago I finally came into contact with him && I realized that I love him. I knew I did from the beginning, but I was so afraid of making the wrong decision that I just went with what I thought was right. This guy is beyond amazing. My previous relationship was very unhealthy in many ways, and he was there fo...

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Best signs that a guys into you?


Posted Sunday February 10 2013, 11:39 pm

I'm just wondering what some things guys will do when they like a girl. And do different types of guys (shy, player, outgoing,etc.) do different things when they like someone?

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relationship: lately he is been acting different


Posted Sunday February 10 2013, 5:32 pm

we have been together sence i was 18 fallen for each other andd here lately he is been acting different dont talk to me we have 7 other people living with us its his family his nephew has a baby momma and he has been being nice to herr used to didnt like her doing stuff forr herr taking up forr her is something going on or am i just been stupid he says they aint nothing going on but your words andd actions show me different his nephew has been cheating on herr for a month now and sence then me and my boyfriend has been having issues tell me it just me

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What to talk about (text about)


Posted Sunday February 10 2013, 2:09 pm

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now.

We hangout alot and we use to talk on the phone every night but now the last couple of months the talking on the phone has stopped. We still hangout alot.

but when we don't hangout we barely talk. We use to text alot and use to text to eachothe very good. But now it's like she isn't interested in talking to me. We are both 17, she pretty much just one words me or says 2 words but doesn't participate in the convo.

The other day she said our conversations get old, because i always ask the same thing. She never tries to start a conversation with me and she never asks questions or anything. But when I do see her other messages to other peopl...

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will my relationship get ruined if we invite others into the bedroom?


Posted Saturday February 9 2013, 7:31 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We are very open and trusting in one another. He has a child with a previous partner but I don't mind and we all get along with each other. A few months ago I came out that I was bisexual and he immediately entertained the idea of a threesome. We talked it over and agreed that it might not be the best idea. He told me he doesn't mind me fooling around with women when we go out to parties but I don't due to the fact it just isn't right. For a while we spoke of inviting others into the bedroom but never have. Well, a few nights ago we were at a party and this girl was hanging all over me and started touching me. He said it was okay so I just laid back and let it happen. I didn't kiss her and I...

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Rude or not rude


Posted Friday February 8 2013, 2:25 pm

So is it just me or am I just me but my question is.. Is it disrespectful for your girlfriend to text and call other guys in front you an talk about your relationship problems with other people than to just talk to the other half?

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am i lesbian?


Posted Friday February 8 2013, 11:56 am

Well, I look at girls boobs and their bums and like I am really worrid!! I don't want to be lesbian. AM I?? Please please help me out ??

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He dumped me cos he doesn't want to hurt me.


Posted Friday February 8 2013, 8:28 am

Hi, first of all , excuse my english because I'm not a native speaker, I'm a 25 years old italian girl and my mind is a mess!

I’ve been having sex with this guy for a couple of months, we said “we’ll see what happens between us” but somehow he thought I just wanted him as a fuckbody.

I've really enjoyed these months together, he didnt act as a normal fuckbody, he stayed the whole night everytime we saw, hugged me and kissed me and I’ve never felt this loved before and i think that gave me the wrong idea...finally I got the courage to tell him how I feel, expecting a good reaction from him… but he told me he’s in love with someone else (not corresponded tho), and he was sure from the beginning tha...

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The one guy I havent gotten over in 2 years.. And we never dated!


Posted Friday February 8 2013, 2:04 am

Well to start off.. I'm 19 years old and I'm a female. So a couple of years ago me and this guy who is a year younger than I am started to get to know eachother. I've never been one to fall easy for people and I did fall for him. HARD. As corny as this sounds (and I hate corny) I fell for him the first night we actually met. He was really into me as well and we continued talking. Eventually school started back for him and naturally.. Once he was back in contact with his ex he went back to her.. And the rest was history. He started shying away from me and i, not knowing what to do (I'd never been in that situation before) made the mistake of falling even harder and getting clingy towards him. It got to the point where (before i knew about hi...

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Wanting some advice


Posted Friday February 8 2013, 12:40 am

So my "girl friend" says she loves me an all that gooood stuff. But I dont feel the love. ? she gets all mad over certain things like certain names get brought up she gets all defensive. Is there some thing she is hiding

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