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Get rid of Guilty and love, breaking up, pain
Well I'm 24 now and I've started to love a girl (letz call her A) before 2 years ago. She didn't like me first, however eventually I motivated her to love me and she began to start loving me more than I did.
Few months passed and I felt some lack of interest on her than the past. Anyhow I tried really hard to love her and keep her happy. So the relationship flawed as normal for two years.
But for a few months we are having many arguments and quarrels and always those ends after a big stupid shout from me. She maintain the silence and always needs to neutralize and be clam me down and accept the quilt to her account and reunite. Like these incidents, I felt I couldn't live like this for entire my life and I proposed to break up. That was a really hard dry feeling for me and it felt worst for her (even I have a thought that she has knoked her head at a wall, because I noticed a read spot in her forehead)
I couldn't see her in pain(not only in physically) and I reunited with her. She is the most smartest girl I ever met and she is loving me more than her life. But like this I'm gonna be a high tempered red-bull. Even now I'm planing to loose her for my own and her good. (but feel really sorry about her,and cant do it)
However before a week or two, I've found a chance to contact a girl (letz call her C) who was my first crush since the grade 7 (she was grade 4)
That was a huge crush and I spent most of my life (more than a decade) thinking about her.
Its only a chance for contact her, but I felt some fresh feeling about her (may be love) However I don't know about the C's situation and its on hold. But defensibility my mind tells that I need to try her.
These messes are very hard to bare and the most lively things have gone away due to these kind of relationship issues.
After all I like to be alone (even I would not up to C) and I feel I'll definitely not marry A.
I'm in great Pain inside.
With these problems I could not deal with the day to day work and I'm holding some responsibilities over a company's logical decision making and these days I messed.
Please could you advice me, what can a man do in these kind of situation?
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Sounds like A has been living a lie the past two years. You said in the beginning she was not interested in you and that you had to motivate her? Sounds more like she tried to convince hetself thst she was in love with you when she wasn't. You cannot make someone love a person, It's either they do or they don't. You wanted more from A then what she could give you. You were in love with her, she was not in love with you.
If you eant to date C then the right thing to do would be to break up with A and let her live het own life while you can live yours.
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