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I am 17 year old female. I have been dating this kid for about 4 years off and on now. I have came to find that he was skyping with this guy and he masturbated on camera for this guy and he didn't tell me about it, but I found out by going through his ipad. I confronted him about it and he got mad cuz i went through his stuff. Then the next day he told me that he did and he was really sorry about it and he didn't like it at all whn he was doing it. That he just wanted to know if he was into guys or not, he told me he isn't and he knows it for sure now. But i still have thought that he maybe into guys and doing things just by the way he acts and things he says. Please help me. What do i do??
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He needs to figure out if he is gay, bisexual or straight on his own and is deeply conflicted about it and or lying.
The fact he's covering this behavior up and doing it is troubling as you really don't know if doing this on a web cam is where this risky behavior starts and ends or what else he may be doing with male partners without your knowledge. Not to mention it's kind of creepy.
You need to tell him that you want him to figure things out in that area but that you can't be involved romantically any longer nor remain a friend (stay firm on this) and found this dishonest and it deeply disturbed you as relationships are 100% based on trust without secrets.
I would completely move on as he likely is gay and could be exposing you to risks if intimate if he's with same-sex partners that are random or met on the Internet like this guy. There could be a great deal more to the story that you haven't learned I'm afraid. Cut him loose as sorry doesn't cut it given the circumstance.
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Um, yeah. Break up with him. Anyone can see if theyre gay by, I dont know, maybe just looking at 'you know what' pictures? but the fact that he masturbated for a complete stranger? yeah, not to be ppresuming, but I think he's lying. sorry :/
:) scottishgal1
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Sounds like he may be bicurious, It could also be possible he is gay and has not excepted it yet. Either way, I consider it to be cheating masturbating on camera with another person other then your partner. No sorry can cut that
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