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Guy at school!


Question Posted Tuesday February 12 2013, 6:51 pm

Alright, so there's this guy at school, (brown hair, really dark brown eyes, glasses, lots of freckles)
and there's me, (blonde, blue eyes, glasses) but he's in eighth grade and I'm in seventh. For valentines day I bought him a lollypop that says, 'BE MINE' on it. I'm going to leave it on his backpack while he's at lunch (our grades have lunch together, but I'm going to wait behind)and I was wondering if I should leave my name on the note I'm going to put with it. it's just a post-it that says, I like you in cursive.
backround info:
we hang out at lunch recess and in the morning before school, we were debate partners, he's my best friend's cousin, and I really like him and I think almost everyone knows it. except for him. Of course.
once again- should I put my name on the note?


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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday February 13 2013, 2:19 am:
If you leave him the gift and don't put your name to it how's he ever going to know which girl sent it to him? You don't advance that way as you'll still be in the same place as now.

Rather than leave a post-it that everyone can see get him an envelope and a card in it and be discreet. That way you can say what you want to say in the card "I Like You" and have only him see that you made that bold risk and admission. That helps especially if he's not interested romantically in you.

Even if he isn't he'll have respect that you told him. If he feels like the right one for you it's perfectly fine to do this and I recommend it. There's nothing at all to lose but a lot that could be gained.

Get an envelope, a funny card, give him the lollipop and relax. I'm sure he will appreciate it and even if he didn't like you in that way he'd tackle it with tact so you weren't embarrassed but it looks like a great idea though.
Sometimes if a girl wants a guy bad and he hasn't noticed yet you have to do something like this. Go for it. Inbox me on how it goes. I hope well.

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