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He dumped me cos he doesn't want to hurt me.
Hi, first of all , excuse my english because I'm not a native speaker, I'm a 25 years old italian girl and my mind is a mess!
I’ve been having sex with this guy for a couple of months, we said “we’ll see what happens between us” but somehow he thought I just wanted him as a fuckbody.
I've really enjoyed these months together, he didnt act as a normal fuckbody, he stayed the whole night everytime we saw, hugged me and kissed me and I’ve never felt this loved before and i think that gave me the wrong idea...finally I got the courage to tell him how I feel, expecting a good reaction from him… but he told me he’s in love with someone else (not corresponded tho), and he was sure from the beginning that I didnt want a boyfriend and that shocked him.
And now, he believes we better stop seeing each other in that way and just keep being friends.
I don’t really know what to do. Stop all contact with him, keep talking as friends or keep having sex as friends hoping he’ll start feeling something for me now he knows how I feel.
Thanks for any advice you could give me.
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Well actually, as much as I am not a fan of the whole fuck buddy thing because it so often goes wrong, it sounds like he was fairly honest. At least with you, I have no idea about his other relationships.
To him this was a casual fling and to you it became more. This is often how things end up.
Anyway, now you know and, painful as it is, you have to take the right steps to heal. I would definitely say to cut all contact with him. Remaining friends will only open old wounds and stop you from moving on. Continuing to have sex would be even worse for you, and I doubt very much that it would change how he feels considering he went months without developing deeper feelings.
Definitely, the best thing is to cut ties and move on.
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Sweetie, he lead you on. This man used your feelings to his advantage to get what he wanted. Sounds like he cheated on his girlfriend with you....
You were not his fuck buddy, you were his victim.
I would stay away, stop contact. This Guy is an asshole
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