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how can I get my mom to let me go to my boyfirend house I do what my mom ask me to do but when I ask if I can go to my boyfirend house on Saturday she say no and I dont know how to make her say yes by one day plz help
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It would help to know your age in answering this question.
In general young girls, girls under the age of 16 should not be left alone with a boy unsupervised. From the start of puberty boys are hard wired to get one thing from girls and will tell them anything they want to hear to get it. Young boys also confuse lust with love.
Girls on the other hand do know the difference between lust and love. Though they are willing to do things they know they shouldn't do just to keep their boyfriend. This is what has mom worried. As you get older you will learn that a boy needs to respect you and love you not just lust for you.
An alternative to you going to his house is asking mom if he can come to yours while she is home to chaperone. If mom says yes and he agrees then this is a major step in the right direction for your relationship with him as he may be one of the few you boys that does now the difference between lust and love. ]
the reason she says no is because she knows what can happen if a teenage girl is left alone with a boy. no matter what you say to her she might not let you go until your old enough to take on responsibility. i think she is right because our hormones are wild and we as teens might do the most stupidest things to have fun. ]
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