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Moving to fast? Do I call I quits ?
Me and my bf have been dating six days and yesterday he told me he loved me and now he's trying to tell me I can't hang out with my friends and is calling me babe we got into an arguement today because he said something that should not have been said about one of my friends what do I do( I'm 14 he's 16
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He's the wrong match for you and will only continue to make you miserable. Anyone who would cut you off from your friends or try to dictate what you do is bad news.
You have to be blunt with him even though you do have feelings for him that you won't put up with this shit and that he makes you extremely uncomfortable.
I think it was Braiden who told you to run for the hills. He's right as nobody who has dated you for six days should act like this. You deserve better be patient and seek it out.
His personality isn't right and he doesn't truly value you. More or less tell him to take a hike with a mighty roar and stand up for people he's talking ill of.
If you don't stand up for yourself he will just walk all over you until you cut him lose. You see people like this thrive on their partners being too timid or weak to take a stand against it and show them they won't put up with it. That's what he expects and wants.
He may also be an insecure guy with no real success with girls and not know how to handle a relationship. He may fear losing you and that's why he's trying to control your movements and trying to hog you for himself. At any rate that's his problem to fix and not yours. You need to move on without him. Who needs the drama? Tell your parents how awful he's being and let them be a part of setting him straight also.
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Real love is patient. Also this is a controlling relationship. He should not control you.You need to be strong. Call it off for a while. Surround yourself with friends. My friend was in a relationship like this and it turned to abuse. Take it slow or wait for a while. Blessed be.
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Run for the hills
If someone tells you who you can and can't hang with, That's the beginning of a jealous and controlling relationship.
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