Q: Hi my name is Leon,I like to be called Hallie, I think I might be transgender as I've been experiencing the same stuff you have,but girl version obviously. I'm 17 and I have already started transision. I wanted to ask Is it always tough being transgender because I find it too dificult to even talk as I still have a young mans voice let alone walk in my own shadow as im too scared to open up to society? with love Hallie xx

Q: He says that he loves me, but he doesn't act like it. He has a big temper and gets upset easily. He only says that he loves me when he is asking for forgiveness for calling me bad names. Whenever I ask why he loves me, he says I am being sensitive. He asks me all the time why I love him, and he expects an answer or assumes that I don't. Am I over sensitive or ...?

Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We have been in a relationship for 6 months, but were acquaintances for almost 3 years before dating.

In the past week, he has suffered some pretty devastating events. On Sunday, his aunt suddenly passed away and today he lost his job. After his aunt's death, he was visibly struggling. He lost interest in sex and we practically had no alone time because when we would finally get home after being out wherever we were (usually his uncle's house) he would just want to go to right to sleep. I started to feel kind of neglected.

Then today, he lost his job. Right now he has to live paycheck to paycheck, which means he won't be able to pay any of his bills like the car loan, insurance, cell phone, etc. He briefly told me what happened and he was going to his uncle's to have a few beers. So I tried to show my support by telling him that he still had me and I would stand by him. He responded by asking me to leave him alone for now. So reluctantly, I am obliging.

My problem is that I am over sensitive and over emotional. I was diagnosed with a mood disorder when I was 16 years old, so it's more difficult for me to cope with difficult occurrences in my life. I get very depressed. Because of my boyfriend's attitude change this week (which I know is probably understandable) I have felt a bit neglected. I tried to express that to him last night before the whole job fiasco happened, and he responded by saying how could I expect to have his undivided attention when he's got so much on his mind (his aunt's death). I tried to understand that by apologizing and asking for a clean slate when we woke up and he agreed.

I know that I am probably coming across as selfish, but for my own sanity I just need some advice on how to cope with him shutting down like this. He's not only my boyfriend but he's my best friend and I wish I could help him through this, but I know the men and women respond differently to stress. Men generally don't want to talk about it the way women do, so I know it's not wise to try and pressure him. But until he's ready to talk to me, or until he feels better and acts more like himself, how do I cope with feeling shut out?

Thanks.

Q: I just moved to Ukraine 3 months ago and so far have been going through a rough time. Just before coming to ukraine November, from august 2012 until 27th november 2012 I was going through a phase where i did not feel anything. No emotions. To everything that happened I was like so what? I did not feel excitement or happiness or get sad either. I was numb. The only thought I had was why am I not feeling anything.

Now that I have to ukraine on the first few days and cried. After that when my family found about that they were worried so I from that moment on I was always acting. Always acting like I am ok, I am happy. But was feeling numb and reckless. I started skipping classes and then I started questioning whether i wanted to study medicine. I started asking myself questions like why am I alive? I feel like a piece of wood drifting along the wave. Like i don't have purpose or any encouragement to do anything. infact i started having suicidal thoughts. Of course I am not going to commit suicide but sometimes I find myself thinking of death..I see no reason to live.
my sleep patterns has become messed up I didn't sleep at night at all for two weeks and just survived by taking naps during day time. I lost will to study. I keep waiting for something,anything that will make me want to live.

I feel that my parents don't understand me. Past week I kind of told them straight that I no longer like studying medicine and I hate it here but they treated it as a joke. I feel trapped inside a square. Its like what I have to do is planned out for me and I am stuck. All I now feel is frustration. I want to cry..CRY. But I can't. I want to yell and argue but I can't.

I am just 17 and I don't want to live like this. I don't think this is living.

Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for a year &1 month i really he has anger management issues and he agrees but he doesnt like talking about it so he takes it out on me but at the same time i deserve happiness to i really want to keep him he IS the one i know it how can i be a dream girlfriend?

Q: So basically for the last few months I was seeing a few guys here and there between work but none of them clicked enough with me to make it to more than a friend level. In fact I only went out on a first date with three of them in a couple month span and the rest of them just faded in to the background and eventually vanished or they lost interest.

I had given it a rest for about a month as I honestly got tired of trying, I went back to focusing strictly on work and totally forgot about dating. Then at work a new boy hit the floor (I work as tech support).

I didn't take much notice of him at first as like I said I was really focused on work but I did see him once or twice always hanging out with some other girl who I assumed was his girlfriend.

I happened to sit by him one day when we consolidated at work (when groups at work move closer to other groups for security reasons) and we started talking after a couple hours. It turned out we had a few things in common but I didn't think much of it because I still considered the girl across from him his girlfriend.

We didn't talk much the next few weeks but when we did we got along and I found out how successful he was at his new job and thought higher of him than previously as I figured he was just another face on the ever changing floor. At some point I grew a tad fond of him and a little disappointed that he had a girlfriend as he dressed very nicely, was very funny and intelligent while remaining polite and quirky.

At work I caught myself talking to my friend Liz about him more than once and I knew at that point I had a crush on him.

One night we walked out of the building at the same time and pretty much fell over each other as I was trying to hold the door for him and he for me as we left. We wound up laughing about it and talking and out of pure curiosity I threw a line out asking if he had a facebook which he did and I later added him. I kept catching his eye the next few days and stumbling into shared time with him and found myself wondering about him at random moments during the day. It seemed like every time we talked there was some sort of whisper of chemistry and caught each other looking across the room towards one another several times.

I then had an unexpected day off of work when the center needed to be shut down for maintenance and posted the night before jokingly that I was going to be so bored tomorrow that the first person to like my status could come out for sushi and a movie with me my treat. I figured my friend Liz would jump at it but to my surprise (and joy) he commented on my status saying he was free as well but that it wouldn't be my treat (as in he was going to pay). We exchanged numbers and texted the rest of the night. The next day a boy I had met at a party whom I had a terrible crush on after cuddling on the couch with popped back into my life asking me to give him a chance and begged me to go out with him the same day. I was thrilled at first as I had really liked him and as he hadn't spoken to me in the weeks past since the party I figured he was just drunk and I was just naive. He then planned a date with me and I figured I would put a rain check on the boy from work. I was getting ready when party boy cancelled on me to hang out with his guy friends. I was absolutely devastated and felt like it was all a cruel joke and spent some time crying over my stupidity. I decided I most definitely would not go out.

However my mother convinced me into it after talking to her about it and I took a chance and went out him not expecting anything.

It turned into the best night I've had in a long time. We took a walk around the victorian section of town, went out for sushi, walked for hours at the square just talking and then at around 10:30 I figured I should head home. Instead he mentioned seeing a movie and we went back to my place to decide on one and wound up catching a midnight film that lasted until 2am.

He was very polite, holding all of the doors for me and paying for everything. He dressed very nicely (long sleeve polo, dress slacks, oxford shoes and neatly combed hair) and we really had fun. I was so delighted by the end of the night I kissed him not once but twice which I NEVER do on a first date. We got along terrific and spent most of the night laughing and sharing life stories.

The next day at work was a little awkward he ate lunch with me but he didn't hug me good bye at the end of day instead he walked off with that girl after just a "bye" and I was upset thinking he'd become uninterested. Later on he texted me and asked why I seemed upset and how he really didn't want me to be sad. I feigned it that it was some dumb reason and not to worry about it and we texted for a few hours before he asked me on another date to my happiness.

Today at work we took lunch and break together and he walked me to my car as well as hugged me good night. We texted for a few hours and it turned into sweet little comments back and forth. We plan to go out again tomorrow night.

I noticed today at break he said once a week or so him and his chick friend go out to eat but apparently she's engaged and he says he's definitely not interested in her she's just a friend he's had for a while.


I really like him but I'm kind of worried about that girl. He seems so perfect to me being so successful, attractive, not too tall for me (I'm short), funny,intelligent,classy, quirky and polite. It's almost like a dream that he would have mutual feelings for me when he seems like EXACTLY my type. He's a little shy/awkward at times and he has a tad bit of a speech impediment,also he told me sometimes he has a weird tick that he can't control but that doesn't bother me as I've already gotten used to the other things and I feel as though you shouldn't judge somebody by something they can't control.

Q: My neighbor and I are really close. She is 14 and is expecting twins...I know its sad but we have been trying to make the best out of this that we can. The babies last name will be Nobles and she asked me to help her name them, since her boyfriend decided that she could pick. What are some good full names that would flow well and sound right with the last name Nobles?

Q: I like this guy, but he never talks to me. He probably thinks I'm uncool because the most popular girl in school says she doesn't hate me but I feel like she does. He talks to me every once in awhile. But I don't kno if he's scared to talk to me, if he just doesnt like me or something I want to talk to him but I'm just scared. Help!!?!

Q: Hey everyone! I'd like to apologize for the lengthiness of this question, but I would appreciate it if you'd take the time to read it

There's this boy in my class who I'm pretty sure likes me, because of these:

1-Every time he sees me talking to another guy or flirting with my crush, (his best friend) he gets this jealous look in his eyes.
2-He always finds a way to get to me when we're taking a quiz or doing something in class.
3-He comes up behind me a lot.
4-When I'm sitting and he's standing, he stands behind my chair until I turn around and when I do, he tries to kiss me.
5-When I'm talking to my friend (who sits across from me), he leans over and tries to kiss me.
6-Once, he came up behind me and hugged my hips in the kind of way that couples do and everyone who was around us noticed (all guys) and my best friend saw him do this too. She said it was REALLY obvious...
7-Whenever I walk into class, he would stand up from his seat when he sees me and when I'm on my way to my seat, he would walk up to me until my breasts are touching his chest, and when I back away, he only gets closer. From here he tries to kiss me.
8-In class, I would be talking to my friends and he would come into the conversation, trying to make me seem dumb, but I can tell he is kidding and just wants to see me do my pouting face that I do when he makes fun of me ^_^
9-In one of his attempts to kiss me, he has lifted my chin up and looked into my eyes and since our faces were really close, he tried to kiss me again.

He does other things too, things that I worry about, like:
1-He likes to touch my legs a lot and every time, he would move his hand up my leg close to my pussy, and I always have to slap his hand away, because he stares at me the whole time and has no intention on removing it.
2-He likes to threaten me by saying he will slap me. and a few times he did slap me. In "slow motion". Then he would point at me and laugh. If I had to tell you why I don't like him back, this is honestly THE ONLY reason why. The other things he does, I can deal with, but not this one. His best friend is always telling him to not hit girls, but he kind of shrugs him off, and that's just completely wrong. I like him, but the fact that this is so easy for him to do makes me very careful around him.

My concerns:
How should I dodge his kisses?
Should I talk to him?
If yes, How should I start the conversation?
How do I make it less awkward after I talk to him?
How should I tell him that he should ask me for a kiss when he wants one and not just dive in?
What should I do about the sexual stuff?
Should I tell the teacher about him hitting me?

Thanks to all that answer. I appreciate all kinds of help that I get
And have a wonderful day :)

Q: im having urine tests and i masturbate alot... if the doctors check the urine can they find traces of sperm?

Q: I got very less marks(56%) and this is the first time i scored such less marks, always i used to get above 80%. I don't know how to tell this to my parents and how to face my friends in the college.
I feel like committing suicide, i google it and saw the ways to commit suicide...

Q: Me and my bf have been dating six days and yesterday he told me he loved me and now he's trying to tell me I can't hang out with my friends and is calling me babe we got into an arguement today because he said something that should not have been said about one of my friends what do I do( I'm 14 he's 16

Q: i am a 20 yr girl,i love him very much but he dnt,he always ignore me,abuse,ambaressed me...we also had physical relation,i knw him from past 6 years,what shud i do,i want to forget him.

Q: So i sent two velo-grams (they are like letters of valentine, only it comes also with candy.) so i sent two velo-grams to the girl i like, and her best-friend which is also one of my friends, but my "friends" are called like this because they are ******** and because i have fun with them but they act really stupid. So these "friends" started making fun of me that i have no chance with her and now i feel really pissed about them. My best-friend which isn't a "friend" just found out by the best-friend of the girl i like that: she thinks im a great guy, and has lots of fun with me, but she loves her new boyfriend a lot,and she falls for older guys( this is bad cause im younger than her by quite a bit of months). But the very good news is that both the girls will send velo-grams to me too!! But i still need help!! Should i keep a distance or should i get closer? Should i just wait for her to break up with her bf?
P.S before i forget, shes a brave one and hugs lots of people, but sometimes we eventually kiss on the cheek, and she likes my company. PLZ HELP!!

Q: Well, I look at girls boobs and their bums and like I am really worrid!! I don't want to be lesbian. AM I?? Please please help me out ??

Q: Hey,
So firstly, I'm not asking this for people to say what I want to hear-I'm asking it for honest opinions please.
I'm 17/f and I'm shy but the person I like is even shyer, a we dont talk except to do the work.
Whenever I'm around he's constantly looking down at his phone or whatever, and when he looks up he looks at me-and then will look down again. Also, I've noticed he sits by me when I'm studying on a computer alot, and drums his fingers on his machine,which is odd.Also the other day when I left the room he must've left too because he was also going up the same staircase as me.

Now honestly please, is this something or have I blown it out of proportion?

Q: Okay so I am a girl, and I am a teenager. Alright so, my best friend ever has this boyfriend and she really loves him. The problem is she is in a huuuge fight with him and they wont talk at all. I was texting him and he said he is probably going to move to a different state with his brother. I don't know if I should tell my best friend or not, If I don't she may never know or when he tells her and she finds out I knew, she will hate me. But if I do tell her and he was gonna tell her I might ruin them making up and she will hate me..... or she will get all depressed because he didn't tell her or I don't know..... please help me
~someone who doesn't know what to do :/

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