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Do i tell her or not? I am really torn about sharing what I know!
Okay so I am a girl, and I am a teenager. Alright so, my best friend ever has this boyfriend and she really loves him. The problem is she is in a huuuge fight with him and they wont talk at all. I was texting him and he said he is probably going to move to a different state with his brother. I don't know if I should tell my best friend or not, If I don't she may never know or when he tells her and she finds out I knew, she will hate me. But if I do tell her and he was gonna tell her I might ruin them making up and she will hate me..... or she will get all depressed because he didn't tell her or I don't know..... please help me
~someone who doesn't know what to do :/
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Unless her boyfriend is your very, very close friend, stop texting him entirely. That's where this problem is starting. He's using you as a conduit to her, and probably hoping you will tell her, since they are being selfish chicken shits who wont speak to each other.
Stay out of it.
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Stay of out it
This is HER relationship and you should not be getting involved in it. That is rude and nosey, If she wants to vent on you the just listen but do NOT get involved. This is how drama creates, let her handle it. Stay out of her buisness.
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STAY OUT OF IT COMPLETELY! This is their mess and secret to learn or share NOT yours. If you get involved and say what you heard/know NONE of them will ever trust you again and you'll loose them both as friends.
I know your intentions are good but as they say the road to hell is paved with them. You're gonna get bit. I've seen it and been through it myself before and it always winds up the same way you lose them. When it comes to a friend's love life and relationships stay the flip out or end up friendless. It's the one thing you NEVER do with a friend no matter how close or how long you have known them.
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You should tell her for a couple of reasons. One, she will feel betrayed by you. Two, she'll feel hurt by her boyfriend. Just imagine if the fight was not that serious and they lose each other forever. Three, she will think her boyfriend is into you. I've seen it time and time again. Someone does a noble deed that looks bad and a relationship is destroyed. Tell your friend.
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