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My wife's sexual past is driving me crazy and we have no sex
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 3:42 am
My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a...
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the guy that I liked invited me to his party but I said no
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 3:04 am
16/F, I was talking to the guy that I liked and he started laughing at me when he found out that I don't drink and I've never had a boyfriend. He invited me to his party but I turned his invitation down cause I just didn't feel comfortable with the drinking, snobby ppl from my school and everything else . I felt that I really made a bad impression and just because I've never had a boyfriend and I don't drink alcohol, does this make me seem bad? and was it okay that I said no to him?
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Am I needy?
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 2:26 am
ok I wanna know do I go for older guys all the time for a reason? Like do I do it b/c I think it's kool? Or do I have a problem? Also I tend to fall for guys hard.Like when I have a crush on them I always seem to really show it. & idk what to do about any of it. :/
Age:17
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does he still like me?
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 2:05 am
so i recently started going out with this guy. and we go to 2 diffent skools so we see each other on the weekens. we started going out on the 26th of march btw.
so he came to my skool with me on monday to meet all my friends and for fun and stuff, and cuz he doesn't have skool.
so i have this really pretty friend and i thought they were flirting and she is alot prettier than me, seriously she is almost a model and shit.
and i think she likes him and i think he likes her back. and i really like him and i don't want her to steal him from me. or for him to like her while we are going out, cause that is weird. it would be like everything is fake and stuff. so i don't know what to do.
his friend said he wouldn't che...
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i think i am pregnate
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 1:10 am
i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad?
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how do I let her now I like her?
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 12:47 am
WELL I know this may be kind of wierd but, I like this girl. I met her Online and that's it. We talk everyday and flirt all the time, She's even told me she likes girls also. I told her I had a crush and she wanted to know who it was and I lied to her saying it was my OTHER friend, but it was really her. I feel bad but not at the same time because...I don't know how she'll react. I keep dropping hints and everything but either she doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it. I'm a mess about this..cuz I really do like her. What should I do??
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hot senior
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 12:30 am
i like this senior guy (i'm a sophmore) and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. don't want to
make a fool of myself but in a few months he'll go off to college and i dont want to miss this chance. got any ideas to find out if he likes me or is just being friendly?
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I like him, he likes her.....
Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 12:24 am
I really like this guy but I found out he likes one of our other friends.
I'm not sure if she likes him, but she's doesn't seem to be discouraging him...
I don't know what to do.
She doesn't know I like him.
I only told our other friend. (since she kind of guessed so.)
But now I've stopped hugging and walking too close to both of them. I can't smile around either. I get a sick feeling.
I don't want to get in between them if they want to have a relationship.
Should I just avoid them? And not go hang around them at lunch and in between classes and after school?
I don't know.
I feel a lot better when away ...
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hard to get?
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 11:58 pm
I'm dating a guy and I'm not shy at telling him when I want him, want to see him, or wanna talk to him, but I can't help but wonder if maybe he'd want me more if I backed off a little and played a lil hard to get. Tips?
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rings
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 11:09 pm
my boyfriend wants to give me a gold diamond ring and i told him no but he said he is going to buy it any way should i let him i will feel bad though cause he is wasting his money on me but he said he is not but still he talks about getting me stuff but i say no then i say i am going to get him things and he says no can anyone help me on how me and him can buy eachother things without the guilt? plez help fast he is gonna get the ring on wednessday
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hopeless flirt
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 10:42 pm
how do i flirt sucessfully with a woman. i am a green leaf when it comes down to flirting. mst of the time my attempts fail me, i want to be able to make a woman laugh and attract her some how. im almost 7ft tall. that at times hinders me to. your tips and advice are very much welcomed. thanks
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?Boyfriend/ex?
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 10:32 pm
Im a 14 year old girl, and i am in 8th grade. i Was going out with this one gay....lets call him Jay, i was going out with Jay for 4 months and i think he was my first true love, i still love him but i dumped him because it just had to be done, he didnt treat me right but that didnt stop me from loving him and i still do, the next day his best friend asked me out because he had been crushing on me for 3 months and i said yes because he was super nice, sweet, i knew he would treat me right, and he has. Lets call this guy Tom, well me and tom have been going out for a little more than a month now and he is amazing, and my feelings for my ex are starting to come back, i do not want to be with him, no mader how much i love him i can never be wi...
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my husband and i don't have sex anymore even though we love
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 10:28 pm
My husband and I have not had sex in a year. This is no doubt of monogamy. We both have health issues, but come on, in a year! He is 40 and I am 39. We have been married for 6 years. We never have had a good sex life and I just don't know what to do to get the fire going. We are affectionate as far as he rocks me in the recliner, kisses me (not romantically), we still hold hands. It seems we are more like loving room-mates and I want more. He is definately my soulmate. We were each others first for sex. We met in college but at the time he played football and that was his life. After 11 years of being apart we got back together. All my friends tell me it's a fairy tale, but I'm too embarrassed to tell them about my sex life, because they think we have everything. Please help.
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Posted Monday April 10 2006, 10:13 pm
ok well this is the same person w.the bestfriend thing.. well before anything ever happened between us.. we were soo close like we'd chill all the time then suddenly it all stoped.. do you think that tomorrow i should go up to him and tell him how i miss how we used 2 be before everything happened and i want things to end like hooking up between us cause i dont wanna lose him as a friend?
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Posted Monday April 10 2006, 9:55 pm
ok well basically theres this guy im totalli into and he liked me to but he never told me so i got w/his bestfriend but me n his bestfriend never dated but we were tlaking and then we stoped and one night we went to this cabin and we told eachother we like eachother and we kissed and he kept saying (his bestfriend) can never find out and blah then the next week until tuesday he ignored me.. then tuesday came and there was no school wednesday and it was my frinds bday party and we kissed again and now hes ignoring me again but i rele like him and people think its because hes afraid of his bestfriend finding out and i know he is.. but he totally ignores me but he tells me he likes me and blah and he tells his friend who he talks to abt it th...
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SO FRUSTRATED
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 9:39 pm
this guy i "like" keeps getting me mad, one day he likes me and one day he don't. WHY. he's leaving to vegas for a week and just before he left he says he doesnt like me but two days before he said on the phone he does and the likes this otehr gurl and he doesnt know waht to do, do you think he's doing that cuz he's leaving and yeah... but thats so stupid he does it when he's here too, i dont get it HELP
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morals
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 9:17 pm
so ive been seeng this guy for a little while now and i totally do wanna wait to have sex with him but sometimes i just get so tempted! my morals dont seem near as strong and my promise to myself that id at least wait till im 18 seems harder and harder to wanna keep. (btw im a virgin) so what i wanna know is does anyone regret there first time? like it wasnt special or they wish they waited? any tips or advice is truely appreciated.
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should i be upset?
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 8:17 pm
i was on myspace and my messages stopped working so i logged onto my bestfriends myspace to see if her messages worked. i clicked on a random message and saw that she had told my boyfriend that it was ok w/ her if he looked at her chest. and after i saw that i started crying and felt bad cause my bf asked wat was wrong and i couldnt tell him the truth. i wrote several short stories about how upset i was feeling on my xanga and my bf saw it and gave the link to 2 of my friends and they got really worried but i couldnt tell my friend y i had really gotten upset. should i still be upset at her even tho her bf said my chest was sexy? or should i just forget about it and let it go?
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desperate for lvoe
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 8:08 pm
I just really want a boyfriend,
I want someone to love me for my imperfections,
i want to love someone.. and just be loved in return. I swear thats all I need is love.
I KNOW that the more you look for love the harder it is too find, but i cant get it off my jmind when i see all these couples all the time at school.
and please dont give me some smartass reply.
I want something genuine.
But its just I know EVERYOEN says you ahve the rest of your life. i'm in 9th grade btw.
but i know i have the rest of my life buti the point isI have now too.
gah..
help?
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so embaressed
Posted Monday April 10 2006, 7:53 pm
hi my name is jess my b/f's dad told us that he didnt want us in the house when no one was there so we left until he left the house and we went back in. well we heard him pull in the driveway so we went out the back door and he was standing right there. now i knw its gonna be so awkward if i ever go to his house again. how can i stop feeling embaressed and awkward and get things better between me and his dad
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