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should i be upset?
i was on myspace and my messages stopped working so i logged onto my bestfriends myspace to see if her messages worked. i clicked on a random message and saw that she had told my boyfriend that it was ok w/ her if he looked at her chest. and after i saw that i started crying and felt bad cause my bf asked wat was wrong and i couldnt tell him the truth. i wrote several short stories about how upset i was feeling on my xanga and my bf saw it and gave the link to 2 of my friends and they got really worried but i couldnt tell my friend y i had really gotten upset. should i still be upset at her even tho her bf said my chest was sexy? or should i just forget about it and let it go?
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It was a good thing that you went on her myspace because if you never found out what your boyfriend was saying to your girlfriend than that just wouldn't be to good. When you go out with someone it's a commitment to love them and only them, and even if he's flirting with your friend then that's still not loyal at all. You should tell him that you found out that he said that to your friend. If you really love him then you should be able to tell him anything on your mind and he should understand. You should also check the date of the message because it could be from before you started going out with him. If it's from before then you have nothing to worry about. You should also, if you have the guts, comfront your friend about it after your boyfriend, because she had no right to say yes to his question if she's really your best friend.
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Ok i think you messed up on the last part. But i think its ok if you are still upset since you still haent told anyone. You should tell your bf what you read and if he gets mad then brake up with him because if he really was going to look at her chest then hes not good enough for you. Sit down and talk to your bf about what you read and ask him if he really wanted to. Tell him you dont want him to. Hope it turns out ok and try not to get to upset over it just move on if you have to.
♥ jackie
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i think that you should tell him and her why you got upset. it may be hard but its not gonna kill anyone. i mean if they have a reason of why you got upset they may be able to relate to it and understand and if you can talk that out with your friend and bf than it will make the bonds between all of you stronger. but if it doesnt work out for the better you may learn something, that maybe they arent such a good friend or bf, and if you learn that sooner than later, youll truely appreciate it later.
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ok the last part of your question confuses me a little... her bf said your chest was sexy? does she have a bf who said that to make you feel better? anyway it doesnt really matter, guys look at girls chests wether or not they have a girlfriend, what important is that they dont touch other girls chests. now he probably should be talking to her about it, but its possible she just caught him sneaking a peak and was mature about it and told him she doesnt mind. so the fact that he looked at anohter girtl doesnt mean he likes you any less, i wouldnt worry about it. also, you really shouldnt be logging into peoples myspaces and reading their messages without their permission, and i find it hard to believe that it was just a random message that just happened to be from your bf. back to your side, im not saying you dont have any right to be upset, but you shouldnt be too upset, just forget about it its not that big a deal
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