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hS<3
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 10:56 pm
ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one? <3 p.s. please don't give me something lame like "join a club to meet people!" lame. thanks!
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Boy.
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 10:42 pm
So I am friends with mostly girls. One of my closest guy friends' name is Ethan. He has a girlfriend. I think that he likes me, though, because he flirts with me a LOT and knows me really well.
I always wait for him leaving school. Today it was me, my friend Kathryn, and Ethan. Ethan just stopped, playfully kicked my butt, and then kept walking. Also, we always get in trouble for talking.
Recently, I got contacts, and since for a field trip, I wasn't at school Friday when I wore them, I asked my friend Kody to tell Ethan that I was wearing contacts. Today, I brought it up and he was so excited for me. Also, I was looking for a certain shirt to show school spirit, and he reminded me to get it.
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11 whole years!
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 10:39 pm
I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....
Lil' Girl
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good idea?
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 10:16 pm
I just met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we really hit it off. We met at my party (one of my friends brought him to introduce us). Well, he lives about 3 hours away from me but is in town 4 days a week because he has an internship down here. Most of the time he'll probably be working. I'm a senior in high school and he's a junior in college so this coming fall, I'm going off to college and we'd be going to the same school. But, he's still going to be down here most of the week and possibly even more than right now.
Would it be a good idea to get involved with each other?
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Does she have feelings for me?
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 9:41 pm
I am 18/m, there is a girl who i really like and want to get closer to her. I met her through high school but we are now at different unis although i still stay in contact with her online and I have her mobile number. To me she is a really nice person, she used to help me out like with studies and give me advice when im down, basically i feel like we are having some sort of connections. However i just realise that im not the only boy she is nice to, there are others -_-.
A week ago she invited me to watch a movie with her at a theatre and i asked who was going and she told me that about 2 more others are coming but on that day there were like 11 people and most of them are guys. What worst is that she didn;t really talk to m...
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lieing..?
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 7:46 pm
My boyfriend and i have been going out since april 1st and yeah hes aazing well, i found out he smokes weed so i yelled at him the first time he promised he would not smoke but of course he did and told me so then he dtiched me one time to go smoke ssaying that he was going to meet up with his friends when right before he promised me a million times he wouldnt. well now i dont know what to do he keeps breaking his promises with me. yeah i do give him credit for tellin me the truth but i dont want him doing that and he knows that. what should i do next time he breaks my promise. should i let him go or what?
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dont want to sound desperate.
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 7:42 pm
okay so i like this boy. hes really cute. he says that he wants to hang out but whenever i ask him, he says maybe then we never do. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. i really wanna hang out with him to get to know him better but i dont want to sound desperate. what should i do?
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boy problems
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 6:48 pm
theres this boy who moved to my town in 5 grade and in 7th grade started likeing me.i started likeing him back but he never got the courage to ask me out. then he moved hours away but i still talked to him occassionally. we kinda have a thing for each other but i have a boyfriend who ive been going out with for 2 years. the kid who moved away is comming down to visit for a couple weeks nd my boyfriend is going away. should i cheat on him or should i just end things with him nd move on..??HELP
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So I went to my counselor
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 6:23 pm
http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=422599
that was my previous problem,
she and my parents both think I need someone older. Mom thinks that Trae is just infatuated with me since I was his first everything. He wants sex, which that is a given, all guys do, and thats what got us in trouble because his grandma found out, and i told him mom we wouldn't do it again and hes still trying to find loopholes and do other sexual things. Mom said he's making me miserable. Mom said sex is all he wants since one day when I was on my period he didn't want to see me for that specific reason. I'm not allowed to see him for like 2 months till his mom gets back because his grandma won't let him see me. I don't know what to do. If I should break up with him, or what?
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Posted Monday April 17 2006, 4:55 pm
Hey, I’m 15, a girl. My best friend, a guy, pulled a disappearing act from my life eight months ago after we fooled around a tiny bit. As in, he wouldn't talk to me, acknowledge my existence, or even give an explanation why. Of course, it may help that we were caught messing around by his mother.
Anyway, he recently recontacted me. It was the first time I’ve ever cried from being happy. That’s how much it meant to me. I mean, after 9 months of not acknowledging my existence... he was my best friend. It was like, whoa
But due to how he's acting, I’m feeling like a booty call. And I know that if the situation were to actually materialize, I wouldn’t be able to muster up the emotional distance necessary to be a ...
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Is It Okay For Guys To Do That ?
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 4:34 pm
Okay well i was talking to this guy i like yesterday,and well he knows i like him and he likes me too.So we were talking online yesterday and i asked him how his easter was and he said it was fun and he asked me how mine was and i told him,then he said one of my uncles g/f was playing with her kids and she wore tight pants and her underwear was hanging out and her boobs were flying around.And all i could say was lol uhmm o? and then he says hahaha i know but i still love you.I hate it when guys do that and talk about other girls when they know you like them and stuff i mean,its not like hes the first guy ive liked whos talked about another girl in fornt of me but still.My question is,is it okay for a guy to talk about other girls while the ...
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he's so sneeky
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 3:39 pm
ive known this boy for 7 months... we were going out since i met him and we broke up like 3 weeks ago. we argue when we go out and when we arent going out. hes in love with me but everytime i get mad at him it makes me just want to be his friend more and more. he doesnt understand. he always hides stuff from me when he finds stuff out. hes really sneeky too. he found out my password to get on my computer, to get on my email, to get on here, and to get on my buddypic [ x0xkayla ] check me out.. lol ! well since weve been brokin up weve still be hanging out and doing stuff like we would normally do when we are going out. but on my buddypic it said that i was single and i was looking for a boyfriend and blah..blah.. blah . and he was being nos...
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For the first time I need advice.
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 2:42 pm
I've been with this guy for two months. And we were sexually active. Well his Grandma hates me anyway and she found out we were having sec because she snooped through Trae's droors and found a note. She called here the other day but Mom didn't tell me until Trae found out. We called Trae's Mom. She was like I'm not mad at you, I just told you before that you guys had your whole lifes and how do I know your not going to do it again. I was like I promise you we won't. So then I suggested that me and Mom run up there and talk to his Grandma since thats who he's staying with until his mother comes home. She went off she said I was a hypocrite and that since I had been with other guys before Trae and he was just my next victim. I was like I was ...
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Not what I expected
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 1:58 pm
My boyfriend drinks. That I dont care about. Just as long as he is responsible. Well he goes out with a friend of ours and drink this his friend's freinds. It really kind of bothers me because they are girls. I have talked to him about it, and he has reassured me that he won't do anything to threaten us as a couple. But our mutual friend, whom he drinks with, says that he can't control himself. But, This friend is known to tell lies. What should I do? I don't trust the girls he drinks with. I trust him. They drink like 2-3 times a week.
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keeping a girlfriend
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 1:28 pm
every girl i go out with dumps me within a couple of weeks. i'm not conceited and people are always telling me i'm a nice guy but now i'm starting to feel like i'm not capable of keeping a girlfriend. how can i keep a girl for more than a couple of weeks?
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Freaking me out- I'll rate 5s
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 12:45 pm
OK so there is this guy and he's really sweet and nice and funny and cute. But, he's like too mice and too funny. Well, the other night we were texting and he was like you are the only girl for me and you are so perfect for me. He was like I miss you sooo much and then he wrote LYL (love ya lots). Yes I like him, but we aren't even going out! And there is this dance at his school and he has to bring a date and he wants to bring me! That's just so not my style. I am more of those crazy, wild, hyper, love to havea good time girls. How can I make him see that? How can I make him see that it freaks me out when he says that? And how can I get out of going to that dance?? Thanks in advanced!
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jokeinggg
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 12:20 pm
i need to make my crush laugh
....jokes non perverted or mean
btw im a girl~
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guys only pleeeeeeease
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 10:32 am
well im 14/f (15 in 2 monthes) and there's this guy that i like and he's 17 but im not sure he'd really be into me since he's 2 1/2 years older. people i didn't know have thought i was 15 or 16, because i just look older i guess, but i was just wondering if some guys out there (that are around 17 or 18) could tell me if you wouldnt mind the age gap or if it would make you feel uncomfortable?
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Posted Monday April 17 2006, 9:50 am
Well, my husband Diego and I have been married for about one year and one half. I love my husband very much.... but I feel like he isn't doing his part in taking care of the house and stuff. You see we're only 19. But we have been dating since we were 13, so i know him really well, but I think that he could do more to pull his weight around. He never helps with Dinner, he never cleans up, all he does is study for school, which i, on top of everything out, have to do also. Im currently Attending Yale on a ful scholorship, and i can't afford to lose my scholorship, but Diego is making me so stressed out. PLease help
What can i do to get him to pull his weight around the apartment?
-Princess Ava
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easter
Posted Monday April 17 2006, 3:52 am
My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.
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