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lieing..?
My boyfriend and i have been going out since april 1st and yeah hes aazing well, i found out he smokes weed so i yelled at him the first time he promised he would not smoke but of course he did and told me so then he dtiched me one time to go smoke ssaying that he was going to meet up with his friends when right before he promised me a million times he wouldnt. well now i dont know what to do he keeps breaking his promises with me. yeah i do give him credit for tellin me the truth but i dont want him doing that and he knows that. what should i do next time he breaks my promise. should i let him go or what?
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A guy lied to be about being clean for 6 months(!) It's definately not cool when you find out, and it's also definately not cool to keep him when you know he lies. Even if he does tell the truth to you at times, a broken promise is a broken promise. It shows how highly he thinks of you.
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It's clear that he was smoking before he even met you ...weed can be very adictive ..
So don't tell him to stop ..tell him to just don't do it around you and you will notice that he will open up more with you because right now you are forcing him to do something he is not ready to do.... but you can help him ...maybe he wont stop but he will try to smoke less weed.
Dont try to see it like he is lieying to you try to see it like he...can't open up with you because you will get mad or sad that is why he is probably lieying to you
Give him a chance to be him self with you and than you have more chance to talk him out off the weed idea..
It may take a whole while but it's worth trying.......
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If you like him enough you shouldn't let him go. what you have to understand is that you can't make him stop smoking unless he wants to himself.(trust me I have tried it before with my mates) so he is making promises he properly won't be able to keep no matter how much he likes you. What you need to decide is how much of a problem him smoking weed is for you, ok it bothers you I don't blame you but you have to decide whether you can put up with his additiction. Best of luck I hope it works out for you. xxx
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Maybe you could try to get him to go to some counseling for his drug problem--through the school or some public clinic. It is good that he is being honest with you about what he is doing, but he is not quitting. You need to be careful that he doesn't get into harsher things and that he doesn't get you involved in drugs either. If he can't kick his habit and keep his promises to you, then maybe it would be for the best if you let him go.
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hey, no dont let him go. but weed is very addictive. right now he needs a suppory system. someone who will help him thorugh it not bring him down. so do everything you can to help. cait ♥
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first you need to truly now how much he likes you smoking weed and things like that are hard to stop so u cant exactly blame him it is hard yes but its addictive you need to be a supporte sysetem and dowhatever you can to help him it seems liek you guys like each other and when two people like each other enough they are there good times and bad
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