okay so i like this boy. hes really cute. he says that he wants to hang out but whenever i ask him, he says maybe then we never do. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. i really wanna hang out with him to get to know him better but i dont want to sound desperate. what should i do?
hershikissescanhelp answered Monday April 17 2006, 9:21 pm: wow!
i guess your 1 of my sista's from another mother. To begin with don't get overly excited over this boy, because chances are he might break your heart. i would go into my life story but that would take up about.... let's just say a long time. but anyways TRY ONE MORE TIME and schedule to see a movie or something you BOTH enjoy. HOPEFULLY he won't decline when he sees you asking him again. this may sound desperate , but it really isn't if you think about it. He'll realize that you want to get to know him better and then... yea!! if he blows off the meet AGAIN, avoid him! this may sound a bit drastic but at least your letting him know how you feel without actually speaking to him. when he tries to talk to you or find out what's wrong, you guyz could talk again like nothing evr happened.:)
molly008 answered Monday April 17 2006, 9:14 pm: okay so that you dont sound like you like him then be like oh hey were (ur friends) hanging out this saturday you can come.. so it doesnt sound like your like omg come! but instead like its his choice and if he wants to come cool if he doesnt then ok thats fine too. when your with a group its also not as akward... so yeah hope i helped!!!!! -- lyl -- molly [ molly008's advice column | Ask molly008 A Question ]
x0_maggie answered Monday April 17 2006, 8:22 pm: I suggest this: Try to avoid him for about 48 hours...if possible (if you're at school..don't speak to him unless he starts talking to you). If he asks you to hang out...ask him WHEN and WHERE and WHAT. It's like an invitation. Make sure he tells you. If he does and doesn't show up and makes an oh-so-LAME excuse...he is not the right guy for you...
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