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when i sit near this guy.. i get this little fuzzy feeling in my stomach.. i really dont know what this feeling means.. thats why i need help.. i kind of like this guy too... the only problem is i have a boyfriend:(:( but i havent seen him in about four weeks and its driving me crazy..
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It could very well not mean much. If you have a boyfriend, it's not against any law to 'like' anyone else. It's natural. You have no real control of it. So, sure you probably have a crush on this guy, physically or otherwise. And since you're lonely, these feelings intensify. As long as you don't act on these feelings you'll be fine. If you DO want to be more than friends with this guy, however, I suggest a nice, long talk with your current guy first.


My boyfriend and i have been going out since april 1st and yeah hes aazing well, i found out he smokes weed so i yelled at him the first time he promised he would not smoke but of course he did and told me so then he dtiched me one time to go smoke ssaying that he was going to meet up with his friends when right before he promised me a million times he wouldnt. well now i dont know what to do he keeps breaking his promises with me. yeah i do give him credit for tellin me the truth but i dont want him doing that and he knows that. what should i do next time he breaks my promise. should i let him go or what? (link)
A guy lied to be about being clean for 6 months(!) It's definately not cool when you find out, and it's also definately not cool to keep him when you know he lies. Even if he does tell the truth to you at times, a broken promise is a broken promise. It shows how highly he thinks of you.


Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything. (link)
If anything, this should give you more reason TO walk with the rest of your class. Not walking could draw more attention to yourself. Instead, be proud! You graduated just like they did. You deserve to be there just as much. And when you're up there, don't think of people watching, instead think of what you accomplished and what more you'll accomplish ahead. When the audience looks at you, they won't see someone with cerebral palsy, they'll see another 8th grader who's moving on in life!


hi people first of all sorry this is long!

well my life pretty much sucks!!! i have 2 weeks vacation now and i am soo not happy about that cause im gonna be bored and now i have to wait 2 weeks to solve my problems in school and everything! i really need to talk to a guy i like to make thinks right again and what if he's like over me than?? and no1 is there cause people go to texas or florida and i can stay at home and i have like nothing to do and i really really need to talk to that guy and i heard him saying on the last day of school: now i dont have to see her ugly face for 2 weeks! and i hope he didnt mean me with that well i'm not sure i never had a fight with him or anything.....maby he meant a teacher but i just wanna know how he feels about me!!!! and im soo bored what can i do???? (link)
I always have the same problem when I'm at home over vacations. But just because you're not around the people you know from school for a while doesn't mean that you can't still communicate with them. There's always AIM, cell phones, internet, etc. And when it comes to confronting a guy, those ways are often way more easy to use. Many things are easier to get out in the open when it's not face-to-face! So talk to him! Otherwise you'll never know, either way.


my friend is a really light drinker. well lately she has been drinking alot. for the past 4 nights she has gotten really drunk. well last night, she began puking and got really sick. im really worried about her. she tells me not to let her drink that much but when she is drunk there is no way of taking a beer from her. what should i do? (link)
You shouldn't have to be this girl's babysitter. What she needs is a good talking to---when she's sober. Sit her down and tell her you're not going to personally monitor her every time. Let her know that her drinking concerns you and maybe she'll limit her own self a bit better. If not, get her some outside help.


Anyone know any sad love songs to cry ur eyes out to? thank you. ♥ (link)
Try anything by:
-Dashboard Confessional
OR
-Death Cab For Cutie
!


what are some good ROCK songs? im into nickelback, the offspring, chevelle, panic at the disco, you know, that kind of stuff! if anybody knows of like a reallly great band that you like just tell me!! i am getting really tired of some songs on my ipod and cant think of anymore to download =)

thanks
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Arctic Monkeys are utterly amazing and fun.


okay well, there is this kid i kno who liked me first and then i started liking him, and he is so sweet. But, he has a g/f. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes and she said well don't you have a g/f. He responded "yeah but we are planing on breaking up but i want her to break up wit me becuase her dad is the coach of the football team, and I don't want him to hate me". So my friend said "yeah but i know how you are too(meaning that he is a very sextual person)and renee isn't like that she won't let you have it that easily." which im not im not reeally that sextual toward a guy .. Anyway so he said"yeah but i can be pretty persuasive." so you see my questions are as follows
-do you think i should back off and totally
ignore him till i get over him(which would be
really hard becuase i like him sooo much i never
liked a guy like this before)so i don't get hurt?

-do you think he only wants me for _ _ _?

-should i keep liking him or would that be wrong?

-and if you think i keep liking him if i will get hurt?

Thank you so much if you can help im so confused i can't consentrate in school cuz i like him so much i can't sleep cuz i think bout him all night. I don't know what to do PLEASE HELP. by the way im a 15 year old female in high school

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Wait it out!

You're only 15, girl. They'll be plenty more. Plenty more to like and who will like you back in return. Not to mention those who know how to treat you right!

And if you continue to like him a while, so what? That's what crushes are. They're fast feelings that leave as fast as they come. You'll think about him a lot, soooo much in fact, but in a few month's time I guarantee you'll have found someone else to keep your mind occupied. It's hard though, it NEVER seems like you'll find someone better, but you always do.

You'll back on this with your new sweetie and think of how glad you are that you passed up that opportunity.




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