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I have a problem with a boy who i like and who likes me back
okay well, there is this kid i kno who liked me first and then i started liking him, and he is so sweet. But, he has a g/f. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes and she said well don't you have a g/f. He responded "yeah but we are planing on breaking up but i want her to break up wit me becuase her dad is the coach of the football team, and I don't want him to hate me". So my friend said "yeah but i know how you are too(meaning that he is a very sextual person)and renee isn't like that she won't let you have it that easily." which im not im not reeally that sextual toward a guy .. Anyway so he said"yeah but i can be pretty persuasive." so you see my questions are as follows
-do you think i should back off and totally
ignore him till i get over him(which would be
really hard becuase i like him sooo much i never
liked a guy like this before)so i don't get hurt?
-do you think he only wants me for _ _ _?
-should i keep liking him or would that be wrong?
-and if you think i keep liking him if i will get hurt?
Thank you so much if you can help im so confused i can't consentrate in school cuz i like him so much i can't sleep cuz i think bout him all night. I don't know what to do PLEASE HELP. by the way im a 15 year old female in high school
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It sounds to me like this guy is a jerk, and only wants you around for the conquest factor. He wants to think of you as something he conquered.
And a hint... if you can't even type the word sex (I'm assuming this based upon your use of _ _ _ ) then you're definitely not ready for the sort of relationship a guy like this wants.
Do yourself a huge favour and don't keep 'liking' him, be friends with him at most. You won't get hurt that way.
Always remember, NO boy is worth messing up school for!
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hey, its not wrong to like him. just ebcause he has a girl doesnt mean you cant like him. he may only want you for sex, but you never know. if you really really want to get into a relationship wiht him be careful. guys like him can hurt you. cait♥
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My dear girl, you have a life ahead of you. There is no rush. There will be other guys out there. Better ones.
And YES!! You should get over him. If those were his exact words, he is going to do whatever he is planning to do. And i need not spell it out for you.
I think that pretty much says it all. And yes, if you persist, you might end up having your heart broken.
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Wait it out!
You're only 15, girl. They'll be plenty more. Plenty more to like and who will like you back in return. Not to mention those who know how to treat you right!
And if you continue to like him a while, so what? That's what crushes are. They're fast feelings that leave as fast as they come. You'll think about him a lot, soooo much in fact, but in a few month's time I guarantee you'll have found someone else to keep your mind occupied. It's hard though, it NEVER seems like you'll find someone better, but you always do.
You'll back on this with your new sweetie and think of how glad you are that you passed up that opportunity.
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