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boy problems
theres this boy who moved to my town in 5 grade and in 7th grade started likeing me.i started likeing him back but he never got the courage to ask me out. then he moved hours away but i still talked to him occassionally. we kinda have a thing for each other but i have a boyfriend who ive been going out with for 2 years. the kid who moved away is comming down to visit for a couple weeks nd my boyfriend is going away. should i cheat on him or should i just end things with him nd move on..??HELP
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Don't cheat on your boyfriend! What's going to happen when the boy that is visiting leaves? He's not going to be around for very long and the only thing that cheating with him would do would be to screw up the relationship that you have. If you want to break up with your boyfriend do it, you don't have to cheat. Breaking up with your boyfriend for this boy that's visiting is probably a very poor choice. There's not much of a chance that you'll have it as good with him as you do with your current boyfriend because of distance issues. It's okay to see him and go out together somewhere as friends, but don't cheat! If you feel something when you hang out with him and he starts talking to you more and showing that he likes you maybe it's worth the risk. Just don't do it ahead of time. Do it after. Look before you leap! Good luck!
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who do you like more?
i know being the "don't do the right thing" advisor, i should tell you to cheat on him, but that would be pointless and unneeded grief and guilt.
so unless you like the boy more than your current boyfriend, i suggest you stick with your boyfriend and just be friends with this boy.
but even if you do like the kid more than your boyfriend, i don't think these long distance relationships work. you're feelings for him will most likely fade, if you're commited to him, and don't cheat him while he's away which is most of the time.
so when he visits, spend some time with him as friends. before you decide whether you want to break up with your boyfriend, see if you really like this boy and think you can maintain a long term relationship with him.
also if he's staying for just a few weeks and you cheat on your boyfriend, then he somehow finds out, you'll lose your boyfriend and the boy won't even be there anymore cause he was just visiting. that's a little risky don't you think?
so if you think you don't really like your boyfriend anymore, simply break it off, that way you can enjoy yourself with the other boy, without having to feel like you're cheating. cause if you're found cheating, that'll cause you a variety of problems in the future.
you're decision really bases on how much you like your current boyfriend.
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