she and my parents both think I need someone older. Mom thinks that Trae is just infatuated with me since I was his first everything. He wants sex, which that is a given, all guys do, and thats what got us in trouble because his grandma found out, and i told him mom we wouldn't do it again and hes still trying to find loopholes and do other sexual things. Mom said he's making me miserable. Mom said sex is all he wants since one day when I was on my period he didn't want to see me for that specific reason. I'm not allowed to see him for like 2 months till his mom gets back because his grandma won't let him see me. I don't know what to do. If I should break up with him, or what?
Christeena answered Monday April 17 2006, 9:28 pm: You need to talk with him and see if he does just want you for sex. And if he does, is it worth having a relationship for? If he denies it, you still need to test him. Cut him off for awhile and see his reactions. Base the relationship on something other than physical stuff (no blow jobs, hand jobs, touching genitals, etc) if he retracts or doesn't want to hang out when you cut him off (or if you are ragging) you know what he wants. Then, it's up to you. Best of luck! [ Christeena's advice column | Ask Christeena A Question ]
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