ive known this boy for 7 months... we were going out since i met him and we broke up like 3 weeks ago. we argue when we go out and when we arent going out. hes in love with me but everytime i get mad at him it makes me just want to be his friend more and more. he doesnt understand. he always hides stuff from me when he finds stuff out. hes really sneeky too. he found out my password to get on my computer, to get on my email, to get on here, and to get on my buddypic [ x0xkayla ] check me out.. lol ! well since weve been brokin up weve still be hanging out and doing stuff like we would normally do when we are going out. but on my buddypic it said that i was single and i was looking for a boyfriend and blah..blah.. blah . and he was being nosy and saw it and started flipping out. hes not the tyoe of boy i want to be with but unfortually i fell in love with him. im trying to get him to forget about me but we were planning on going to cali on may 23rd and now its canceled because me and him are in a big argument. is there any way i can just get him to be friends with me or to get him to change his ways? i want to be with him but i want him to be a good person not always arguing with me and being nosy
-kay
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lydeeuh answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 11:44 am: You should deffinetly sit down and talk to eachother. Thats always the best way to resolve ANY problem. But, changing a person is not as easy as it seems. In order for a person to change, they need to recognize their own problems and then WANT to change. I know its hard for you to be in love and be hurt like this. So just tell him that you love him but you also need your privacy and that he hurts you when he does things like that.
stillstella answered Monday April 17 2006, 8:38 pm: I think you are doing good by realizing that its better if you two only be friends since yall do less argueing that way.
The best way to let someone know how you feel is through communication. One day when you see him, take him in private and let him know that yall need to talk. Let him know how you feel about everything that has to do with yall's friendship and past relationship.
I think by acting the same way around him as you did when yall were going out is a big mistake. Doing this will lead him on. And you don't want to lead him on because then he will think you might want to get back together. [ stillstella's advice column | Ask stillstella A Question ]
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