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For the first time I need advice.
I've been with this guy for two months. And we were sexually active. Well his Grandma hates me anyway and she found out we were having sec because she snooped through Trae's droors and found a note. She called here the other day but Mom didn't tell me until Trae found out. We called Trae's Mom. She was like I'm not mad at you, I just told you before that you guys had your whole lifes and how do I know your not going to do it again. I was like I promise you we won't. So then I suggested that me and Mom run up there and talk to his Grandma since thats who he's staying with until his mother comes home. She went off she said I was a hypocrite and that since I had been with other guys before Trae and he was just my next victim. I was like I was crying and she was like I don't give a damn if she's crying. I never liked her to begin with. cause I was like I WAS EFFING RAPED DOES SHE NOT EFFING UNDERSTAND THAT. She's like tell her I said to never call here again or I will file statutory rape against her. NANANA and she called me a ****. My Dad came in here and called her and went off on her then cause he didn't appreaciate that at all. His Mom and my parents told us just to let everything die down. His Mom told me before she got off the phone with us that she loved me. Trae was crying too. He's like your still my baby and still my girlfriend I love you I'm not gonna let this end.
Another note, I just feel like my whole world is going to collapse. I have no friends, if I lose Trae I will have nothing. I don't know if I'm going to school next year. I thought about getting my GED because I can't put up with what I have to put up with much more or else I will go nuts on everyone cause I'm psychotic. People at school. They leave me out of everything, I'll be sitting there and they will talk about prom and things and never include me in their plans or even ask me, even order lunch and things and it really hurts my feelings. Yeah maybe I need to find new friends, but their is really no one else.
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"People at school. They leave me out of everything, I'll be sitting there and they will talk about prom and things and never include me in their plans or even ask me, even order lunch and things and it really hurts my feelings."
Welcome to the real world. Some people can handle that, some can't.
How did you go from going out with this guy and being sexually active to being raped?
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hey, first off you need to calm down. relax. his grandma cant do anything to you and his relationship so forget about her. for friends just try to make new ones. but dont change for anyone. cait ♥
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it seems like your stressed out alot... your parents are right you just need to calm down and everything will be ok. yes i bet your thinking that things will get worse but after all bad things there comes a good thing. forget about his grandma if she can't stop him from hanging out with you and going out with you then theres nothing to be worried about. most old people are crabby. and on the other hand i think having no friends is better then having friends... they just backstab you. having boys as friends is better then having girls as friend. its real easy to make friends.. im pretty sure you have atleast 1 friend. ya sure you probably feel left out but its not hard to go over and talk to them. and if you dont want to make friends then you always know you have trae. =) dont drop out of school stay and graduate. GED's are hard and they arent as good as graduating. forget what people think about you. go to school to learn not to care what other people thing about you. in the end things will get better and work out. untill then you have to be strong and when you pull through youll only be stronger the next time something bad happens =)!! i hope i helped... hang in there
&& ill be your friend
&&heart's;;kayla
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