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keeping a girlfriend
every girl i go out with dumps me within a couple of weeks. i'm not conceited and people are always telling me i'm a nice guy but now i'm starting to feel like i'm not capable of keeping a girlfriend. how can i keep a girl for more than a couple of weeks?
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If you're a nice guy, relationships should last a while. You're obviously doing something wrong. If you're really close to one of your ex girlfriends, ask her why she dumped you, you could learn alot.
It also depends on your age, if you're young, it's perfectly normal for relationships to last a few weeks.
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Consider why you went out in the first place. Relationships based on physical attraction don't last long.
Try to find a girl who is into the same stuff you are. Chances are the relationship will last a lot longer.
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Ok it seems like when you say your not concieted it usually means you are, do you rush into relationships? could that be a reason or you might need to wait for girls to come to you for a while...take it easy bud. and this is just an oppinon from a girls perspective!
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Well first of all im sure that you are a very nice and wonderfull guy. But I would say that you should talk to the girls ask them why they dumped you. And then just keep trying. The right girl is out there somewhere waiting for you. Sure you had a few bad experiances, but are you gonna let that stop you?!?! Well you shouldnt. Keep trying you will find the right girl soon. Good luck.
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It could be both of you. Ask yourself these questions.
Am I getting too attached too quick? i.e. telling her that you love her
Am I coming on too strong? i.e. kissing, holding hands, cuddly/touchy feely when she's not into that
Sometimes girls get pushed away by this. It can also be the girls that you choose. Are they known to not wanting to be in a relationship for more than a couple of weeks and then breaking up w/ their boyfriends. Are you choosing girls you may not really like much just to say you have a girlfriend or visa versa. Ask the girl what she wants before you persue a relationship. If it's not what you want, don't go for it just because you can. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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well let your girlfriend know that you like her and make jokes and have her laugh.. if shes down and not feeling well check on her and call once in a while to see how shes doing, but not even that, you have to call her like when you have time and make plans with her, you have to be sweet and nice, hang out with her and if you guys are watching movies or out at the movie theater cuddle with her, takke her out to dinner or something .. just be a great boyfriend! haha if you need more just let me know!
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heyy i, sure there is not much wrong with u.. u just have to wait until the right girl come around..trust me when you find her you will just know.. you can try to make relationships longer by not being clingy, yet let the girl know that u will be there for her nomatter what the circumstance is.. you have to treat her like a princess<333
hope i helpedx33paige
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