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We have both cheated and he is still with someone else and has kids... do I give up?


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 8:04 pm

ok my question envolves 4 people. i was with my ex bf for 2 years. about a year in the realtionship i slept with a ex co worker of his which was our friend. and stayed sleepin with him through the rest of the relationship. to this day i still am. so for a year i cheated, but hey i enjoyed it. after a month of cheating i began to gain feelings for this guy. this guy also has a girlfriend that he has had for 6 years. so for 14 months we both cheated with eachother. i had my bf and he had his gf. neigther one of our partners kno whats goin on. i feel that i now have loved him for a while, he tells me he loves me also. he says he gets jealous when i talk to another guy. i kno i want to be with him but his gf is blockin that from happening. oh b...

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hand job in public


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 7:59 pm

I'm new at giving hand jobs but my boyfriend asked me if I can give him one. I said yes because I want too and it's the least I can do since he's the one always pleasuring me. How can you give one in like a park? What's better a blow job or hand job? How can you give the best blow job? Advice/tips would be highly appreciated. Thanks in advance :)


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Cheerleading tips: flying


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 7:48 pm

I'm a cheerleader and this year I'm doing more advanced stunting. I'm a flyer which Is I go in the air. I am able to do a lib which is standing on one foot. I can also do a scorpian but have troble balancing. Any tips? on balancing. Also I need advice on flyin in a basket toss how do you do it!? An I need help on other things like an arabisk? ( idk how to spell it) and when you pull a scorpian how do you hold it and other stretching advice for making scorpians and heel stretches. How do you pull a heel stretch easily? also a tik tock, and a twist pop(AKA a full twist or full down) I can already do a twist but I need tips on how to stay tight in the air and how to get all the way aroun and in the cradle position. I need tips on all of this and how can you fly in a basket toss?

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Loving someone and them loving someone else


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 6:14 pm

I have been IN LOVE with a guy I've known since sixth grade. Every day people would say how great we were together, how we're perfect, and all these other things. I knew for a fact that he liked me since "the day we met". Those were his words, exactly. It has been almost seven years, and he always chickened out at asking me out, but then, this year it got weird. I finally got the guts up and asked him to Sadie's. However, I had forgotten that he told me he was going on a family trip that weekend, and he actually was. Everyone knew we like each other, but at the beginning of this year,my best friend asked him out. I've known her as long as I've known him, but they met three years ago. However, he still hugs me longer, and ...

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Little beatles in my pool!


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 3:50 pm

We have a swimming pool (above ground) and there are always those gross little flying beatles. We went in there at 12 got out at 1ish, it was completely clean, no beatles, I went to go back in there at 3ish and there is at least 10 beatles! They like swim around in there. And they are just really annoying and when you try to take then out with the net they ing on.

So I was wondering, is there anything I can do to keep then away? Like a spray or something to put in the pool..

Thanks!

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How long does it take for Gastritis to go away fully?


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 3:27 pm

I was just diagnosed this morning with it. How long does it take to go away?

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how do i get a job????


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 1:44 pm

how do i get a 13-14 year old farming job????

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leaving


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 12:33 pm

okay im leaving for the summer and staying with my boyfriend. i love him and i want him to have something of mine that he can have to hold and think of me. hes giving me his sweatshirt, and i think itd be weird if i gave him mine cause he cant really wear it. i dont have a specific perfume i wear or anything. maybe like a pillow from my bed (he likes it lol) or like my bracelet i wear with my name on it? i have no idea. i dont even know if the idea is good in the first place. so any ideas or thoughts would help, thanks!

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gym phobia


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 12:08 pm

i've been going to the gym religiously since i was about 15. i'm 19 now. i've always loved it. once i got into spinning and tried all the classes like zumba i absolutely loved it!! i use to go about 5 times a week. as a matter of fact, when I don't go to the gym, I feel weird, because I'm already used to exercising so much. Lately, I have been experiencing chronic anxiety. I get all these irrational thoughts that something bad is going to happen to my mom if i'm not around her. or that if i leave the house unlocked someone is going to come in and kidnap my grandma. it's really weird. but, i've only been getting it lately. it never use to happen to me before. EVER. it's really irrational and i know it is. But, when that happens to me, my hea...

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My husband is cross with me because I have to go away


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 11:56 am

I have to go away for 14days to sort out some documentation work for my daughter. We have talked about this for the last week and now when it is time for me to go now it is going to be a huge problem. Why you may ask me, but it is because he will be left with our 2 boys. WE were told that the process will take 10 working days which will put me away from home roughly 2 weeks if not a bit more provided all goes well. Now his problem his he thought the process will take 48hours. Slight difference to to 10 days. His life will be disrupted because he will have to take the boys to and from school. He is away from me 90% of the time and I am left with no vehicle and I am expected to do all this yet I cannot say anything. What am I supposed to do? We are married and have been for 8 years.

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Toxic Grandma


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 11:09 am

I was never married to my son's father. My son is now 15 years old. Father doesn't want anything to do with son- when they do spend time together - Dad is always hyper critical of son (who is really a good normal teen). My problem is Grandma is toxic. She makes us feel guilty no matter how hard we try to please her. She used to bug son about going to orthodox church with her to the point that son no longer wanted to spend time with her. Since then I have tried to foster relationship out of respect for her but it always fails. Son now dreads seeing her. She has no respect for our busy schedule. When we do get together she only complains about lack of visits. Nothing is ever enough. I am tired of trying to reason with her. She make...

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My tattoo doesn't fit my new future. What's the best way to get rid of it?


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 10:52 am

Hey everyone, 22/f.

Basically, just like my subject says, I have a tattoo on my back of a symbol that's pretty important to me (I designed it), but I'm beginning to see a future for myself in which I don't want to have a tattoo. So, I'm looking at getting rid of it. It's all black ink and the size of my palm, approximately.

1. Has anyone tried Wrecking Balm? I ordered it, I have it, but I'm concerned about skin damage, as I know it's basically a bunch of chemicals. I don't really have sensitive skin anywhere, but I am pretty pale, and scar easily, ish.

2. Has anyone tried laser removal, or intense pulsed light? The only issue with these is that I really don't have a ton of money. So, I dunno. ...

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its complicatedd


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 10:16 am

basically in the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend was all mushy and i really hated it, like i just started going out with him and i already could see how much more he loved me then i loved him.. like i just wanted to chill and have a good time. basically 6 months later we broke up at a party for dumb reasons, but now were back together. But it's different like im more in love with him and now i'm the mushy one and hes not. I've talked to him about it and he's just like you made me like this, i dont know what you want me to do. I love him so muchhhh and it hurts. =/ I know if we went on a break he would just get use to being single and move on, so dont tell me we need time away from eachother please.

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What is this pain on my left side?


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 9:52 am

I went on vacation last week and in the airport on the way there and on the plane i felt a burning on my upper left by my ribs. It hasn't FULLY gone away but it wasn't as bad as it is now. Like, i could hang with my friends and forget all about it but then when i got home, it hit me like a ton of bricks. like it's not the worst pain, but it feels weird. I immediately thought i have mono until i remembered that i had it when i was younger. I have really bad anxiety and stress so my mom thought that it could be a stomach ulcer. i took two exlax's to see if i was just constipated, but i don't feel much different, although it helped somewhat, but i wouldn't say much. i keep on burping every hour and my bowls are fine. I think its somethi...

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i want to know easy ways to die


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 7:11 am

I dont want to live.bcz of my personal problums.i want to know easy ways to die.plz tell me.

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im a bad kisser


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 4:52 am

in my past relationship i kept biting my bf botom lip when we kissed how can i stop this please help f/14

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kissing on the forehead?


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 3:16 am

f/15

I've been with plenty of guys and have gotten pretty close to a number of them both physically and emotionally. For some reason, lately, I've had the tendency to kiss my boyfriend on his forehead a lot. I'm not sure why. I just find it strange, because I've never been inclined to anyone on the forehead, around the eyes, or on their temples or anywhere in that general region. Now, in the movies, I've always gotten the impression that kisses like this were only given in relationships from elderly people to children, (which is a little funny considering he's the older one by four years). I was just wondering what message me kissing him like this all the time could be sending. I see him as a lover/best friend and just think...

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Finding abnormal things sexy....????


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 2:32 am

Sorry, "mental health" was the closest category i could find, haha :D

AH so this is an odd question, i'll try to make it sound serious though...

So, it's never really bothered me before...
But I realized lately that i find WEIRD things...attractive. like, sexy, whatever you want to call it.
Like, I don't know how to describe it really. I just find things that people normally dont care for, really sexy. only with guys, by the way, and its a bunch of different, random things...its always the little tiny details i focus on, though.

haha this question sounds so stupid...it's very frusturating that i can't explain it.

ok so here are a few examples off the top of...

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HELP! Bought Seagate Expansion External Drive and it doesn't work with my Mac!


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 1:54 am

So, I bought this external drive and it will not let me copy files on to this external drive. I have a personal Mac OS X MacBook Pro. I'm hoping that there is a way to fix the problem. At first I plugged it into my Windows computer and grabbed some files. NEED HELP.

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block someone from your phone


Posted Saturday June 26 2010, 1:45 am

how do you block someone from your phone? i started talking to this guy but then realized he was a jerk and i don't want him texting me anymore.

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