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Finding abnormal things sexy....????
Sorry, "mental health" was the closest category i could find, haha :D
AH so this is an odd question, i'll try to make it sound serious though...
So, it's never really bothered me before...
But I realized lately that i find WEIRD things...attractive. like, sexy, whatever you want to call it.
Like, I don't know how to describe it really. I just find things that people normally dont care for, really sexy. only with guys, by the way, and its a bunch of different, random things...its always the little tiny details i focus on, though.
haha this question sounds so stupid...it's very frusturating that i can't explain it.
ok so here are a few examples off the top of my head...
-when guys adjust their ties(or look nervous in general, really)
-the way the joker slowly turns around/slowly lifts his head up... (in the dark knight)
-little facial twitches guys make (again, being nervous, also being suprised or angry)
-small, quick noises some singers make while..singing. cant describe that too well.
-aang the avatar when hes ...powerfully bending...HAHA wow...im a loser...on the other hand...PRINCE ZUKO when hes really pissed and/or...powerfully bending fire. haha what is WRONG with me
-on tv shows/movies, when a guy will say something really little, like one word, where they'll say it in a husky tone, or their voice will waver or something like that...and i just replay that one second of them saying the little thing over and over because i love how it sounds...
-im 15, and it seems as though i tend to find older men attractive...like, much older men. i usually, ahem, CRUSH, on guys anywhere from their late twenties (such as heath ledger) to their early 50s (such as alec baldwin). i really never like teenage celebrities or guys in their earlier 20s...i would prefer Michael C. Hall to taylor laughtner ANY DAY! ;)
-i dont really find guys' bodies that attractive...i mean...DONT get me wrong, a tan guy with a sixpack is great, but i dont seem to obsess over them as much as a lot of my friends...for example, most of the conversations between us while talking about guys go like:
friend- OH MY GOD he has such a gorgeous BODY!!!!!!
me- yeah i guess...he has a weird face though...
hahaha wow this is really pathetic..but dont worry people, i can laugh at myself.
but..ultimately, i was just wondering if anyone else finds themself doing anything similar to this? or am i just a complete freak? haha.
oh, this isnt some weird fetish or something, right? that would suck...
thanks!
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your not pathetic or weird... these are normal things called fettishes everyone has certain fettishes they like peoplr ussually devlop these in teenage years...
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Razhie is right... you are way ahead of the curve in the honesty department, but light years ahead in the ability to verbalize your likes and dislikes.
I am guessing you are fairly mature for your age in general?
Anywho, there is just no way to explain some of the things each of us find attractive in others. Some are really obvious, but some are just flatly without explanation. Example: Myself and a whole slew of other guys think freckles are wonderful things.
I met a woman in her 40s who had been covering, or trying to cover her freckles since she could remember. This conversation started over something I can't recall, but of all the guys sitting in this truck stop that morning... not one had anything but positive things to say about freckles. Many times I wondered if that had any impact on her need to hide them.
You aren't a freak. There has been some freaky stuff posted on this site over the years, and none of that even scratched the paint on the door to freak territory. :-)
The older men thing is something I would caution you about, however. Many young women who grew up without male role models, or at least positive ones spend the rest of their life looking for something that they feel like they really missed out on.
The problem is that you are talking about entering into a romantic relationship with someone to fill a non-romantic need. This is something that doesn't usually work out very well.
I can't emphasize this enough: Think twice, then think again before getting into a relationship with someone else who is in a vastly different place in their life. Even if their intentions are the best in the world... the chance of success is pretty low.
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Different people have different turn-ons, don't worry about it. Personally, I don't pay attention to guys' bodies as much as I do their faces.
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hahahaha. yeah everyone has those little things they find attractive. and about the whole guys body thing, their face is more important to me too cause you have to constantly be looking at it right?
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That's all completely normal. You're just ahead of many of your friends, both in awareness and honesty.
In time you might find some of these attractions evolve into (perfectly natural and healthy) fetishes, but right now, that's not even kinky hun. All that has happened is that you've been honest with yourself and alert to what you are attracted too.
A good husky voice will get me going before a six pack any day - a lot of women feel the same. An attraction to older men can get you in trouble at 15 if you don't remember that not every attraction is one you should act on, but is also very, very normal.
Don't worry about what your directions your brain and fantasies send you off in. Just guard your behaviour and enjoy yourself.
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It's ok, I think everyone finds little stuff like that attractive. My friends all like guys similiar to what your friends like (tan, muscles)while I prefer, lanky and pale. I really live artsy shy boys. I used to like this one boy, he was really quiet, didn't have any friends, and use to have a little paitbrush like behind his ear. I thought that was so cute. So, yea you are not alone. Everyone likes stuff like that!:) the only thing I can say that might be a little different is how you like such older
men. Be careful with that!
But yeah, I hope I helped:)
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